Ask QC: I’m so angry at being circumcised!

Dear Ask QC,

I’m in my 30’s now and I’m still angry and pissed with my parents for having me circumcised when I was a baby. It’s not like they asked my permission about this, they already said they did it for religious reasons but I don’t even follow or agree with their religion either!

My long term partner is very understanding about my situation and says I should have therapy to get over this issue with my parents. Incidentally, he has a beautiful and unmutilated penis, his foreskin is gorgeous and his penis head is so sensitive, I can drive him wild just licking and touching that sensitive head and I really love nibbling his juicy foreskin.

I feel that my cock is totally ruined by having my foreskin removed and I really feel as though I am missing out each time I have sex. I can see the positive effects of having your penis glans covered by a foreskin, that’s how the body intended it to be. To protect it and I can really see how much more sensitive it is, my partners cock is so sensitive it jumps each time you touch it. Mine just feels like hard rough skin, and the scar is not exactly pretty either. Being circumcised really serves no purpose for me and yes I know there is some anecdotal evidence of health or sexually transmitted diseases being lessened for circumcised penises, but I really feel this is a weak argument, especially as I am in a long term relationship. I basically find this a morale issue and I am really disgusted that my parents so selfishly decided to have me circumcised without my consent!

But I think even if I go for therapy for this I still can’t forgive my parents for doing this to me. And I feel so sad for all the boys who are circumcised basically as their parents are doing this for selfish reasons. Why can’t we be allowed as adults to choose circumcision or not?

I have read up some on foreskin restoration and wondered if there are any guys here who have experienced that and can offer any advice and how successful it is?

Thanks in advance guys,

Scott

Hi Scott and thanks for your questions and concerns. Whether its for religious, health or cultural reasons the pros and cons debate for circumcision continues on. But that doesn’t lessen your rage nor does it justify your parents decision to have you circumcised when you were a child. So dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Scott in this situation? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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