Ask QC: Do I have to tell him the truth?

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Dear Ask QC,

I’m 32 and ready to settle down with my new boyfriend, finally I’ve met someone I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Everything is good and we’re planning on setting up home together after the holidays – I’m really excited and looking forward to this.

All but for one thing that is… I’ve seriously played the field for the last 15 years and I’ve slept around a lot. And by that I mean that I’ve had sex with literally hundreds of men, so much so that I can’t remember all the names, faces or places.

The thing is, I know my BF is at some point going to ask how many guys I’ve slept with and my question is, do I have to tell him the truth?

Blaze

Hi Blaise and thanks for your questions and concerns. I think by the age of 32 years old we will all have had some sexual experience, and your new boyfriend is going to be aware of that. Whether you have to, want to or need to tell him the exact amount of men you have slept with is open to debate? So, dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Blaise? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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Dec 23, 2013 By Tim 6 Comments