Ask QC: How long do you think sex between orgasms should last?

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Dear Ask QC,

I have a question about achieving an orgasm. I just read the article about the guy who was being fucked for 40-50 miinutes and he pissed the bed. If I was in bed with an extra hung guy and he had been slamming my ass for almost an hour I would get up and piss on him too!

Some guys think they are porn stars and try to be so athletic that they end up being a bore. I brought an Italian guy home and he was going to fuck and he started going a hundred miles an hour just slamming away like he was trying to come at the speed of sound after about a minute I stopped him and asked if we could try something. He was willing to try so I told him just put it all the way in and then don’t move. I then started to stroke his cock by clenching all my muscles in that area and pulling on his cock until it was almost out then relaxing my muscles and going all up on his cock until it was all the way in. He came in 12 strokes.

The second time time we met up he asked me sheepishly if we could do it again my way. Of course we did it missionary style with me on the bottom. The same technique has served me well when I have the kind of guy that is just there for the sex. Now some people look at the porn stars and say look how long it takes them. They don’t realize that scenes are cut and spliced and put together and one 15 minute scene may contain parts from another shoot and even be days apart…

The average time for a man to start and reach orgasm is 7 minutes. I have never had to say ” stop and let me try something” to most of my lovers but for the handful of times I have this has served me well. My lover who was best in bed used to fuck me and suck me at the same time then when I came he would swallow my come and spit it out and put it on his dick which made it really slippery and he would slowly fuck me and after a few minutes announce that he was coming – he was so sensual and extremely well hung and it was such a pleasure to have sex with him.

I have also had sexual athletes that think it is a race to see who could Last the longest. Whenever I run across one of those I question whether they are enjoying themselves or just having sex for sex’s sake.

So I’d like to ask you guys, how long you think sex between orgasms should last? Do the road runners who just jab away really enjoy themselves or are they putting on a performance mainly to impress them selves? Do you like it fast like a jack rabbit in heat or slow and sensual?

Thanks, Chausie

Hi Chausie and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Is having sex just a “performance” for some guys? Are they trying to make it last to show off or do they want to keep the pleasure going for as long as possible? Do you prefer a “quickie” to a “long slow one”? Is the orgasm more intense when you hold it back for longer or do you prefer the intesity of a quick mind blowing orgasm? Do you have any techniques to help things along in the bedroom such as Chausie uses? Dear QC readers please share your tips, advice and pearls of wisdom with all in the QComments section!
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Dec 29, 2014 By Tim 5 Comments