We've been huge fans of Kurt Wild since he first appeared in a Corbin Fisher solo vid. Since then, he's arguably become the most ambitious young man in gay pornography today: he's worked for Chaos Men, College Dudes 24/7, Jake Cruise, Men Machine, and recently transitioned to directing for Angel Slut Garden. He's not only a chiseled and sensuous young performer with a beercan cock and awesome bottoming talents, but also devoted to his ever-expanding fan base and to his family. Yes, Kurt's a married family man with a wife and kids. Though some porn fans hate gay-for-pay actors, Kurt's publicly spoken in support of gays and has faced discrimination for his doing gay porn. We spoke with Kurt about balancing work and family, his best on-screen fuck, his recent appearance on The Tyra Banks Show, and topping Jake Cruise.
QC: Marriages can be tough enough without an unorthodox job and extra-marital gay sex. How do you balance your work with your wife?
KW: I'm only working about 8 days a month, I'm around to help raise the kids. She supports me like my mom; she does too. But definitely the martial sex between us is totally different [from porno sex]. For one, you're not focused on work—the angles and the lighting. It's sensual versus erotic, sexual, lustful stuff. Surprisingly [when she found out I did gay porn], we didn't really fight about it... When I go on trips [for porn shoots] we don't really talk about it a whole lot. I just used to do trips and come back... at that point she knew I was doing porn, but she didn't know I was doing gay porn. And when I finally told her... it got a different reaction. She didn't cry about it or anything. She finally just said whatever, my doing gay porn was actually better than my having sex with women. She knows I don't get personal gain having sex with other guys. I used to do bi and straight scenes, but I don't anymore. She gets along with the whole gay issue but if I brought women into it, she'd probably feel awkward and insecure about it too. For me, if she was having sex with girls, that'd be one thing... but if it was guys. When I go on a shoot, I usually let her know who I'm working with, where I'm going to be, numbers to call. Mostly for her peace of mind... as long as she knows where I'm at, she'll feel a little bit safer. There's respect and everything.
QC: Though you're married and refuse to label yourself as gay or bi, what do you think about your on-screen sexual chemistry with other men? Is it just natural male intimacy taken to a physical level or do you find the chemistry between you and other guys markedly different from your chemistry with a woman?
KW: With another guy it's... y'know, everyone has their own opinions on who's good looking and who has good qualites about them versus somebody who doesn't take care of themseslves and has a crappy personality. Typically for me, "chemistry" means a good personality, a good open-mindedness. They don't have to be the best looking guy. Sex is sex. I've actually watched porn where girls aren't that good looking but the porn turns me on. Its just aura chemistry vs. physical chemistry. If I can relate to (my scene partner) in more ways than one, then I'm usually going to have a good scene with them. I've worked with a lot of cocky assholes (laughs). Companies look at pictures of me and other men and think "You've got chemistry," but they don't even know what chemistry is. They think they know, but they don't.
Some of my best on-screen chemistry was actually with one of the guys who wasn't necessarily the best looking: Cory Flynt. He did really, really well with the scene; like awesomely well and I didn't expect it. But once he... he was so open-minded that we both just opened up and did it. He just didn't choose to go with the preppy look like most of the guys that I work with with. If you compare him with a lot of preppy guys out there that I've worked with, in my opinion he didn't have the "chemistry look," he had the chemistry. He had never done (porn) before. College Guys 24/7 was his first scene, I think, and I dunno he just seemed ... he didn't seem like he got into porn as much as he did into writing music. I guess it was just something in the back of his mind that he waned to do. And I actually enjoyed the scene because I didn't expect to get as much out of him as I did, being a new guy and not having the typical look. It may sound mean but it's not.... normally everytime I work with guys on, it looks like they have this clean cut look, their hair is preppy looking, their clothes are preppy looking... and this guy proved them wrong. He proved that you don't have to look preppy, dress a certain way and look a certain way to have the best performance inside you and bring it out.
QC: Do you ever eroticize guys outside of acting?
KW: It's just kinda a part of being porn-fry, you're so used to being open-minded and sexual on camera that you find yourself doing it off-camera. But you control it so that you're a respectful guy and not a horn dog. On occasion I'll see a pretty girl and think "Oh wow, that'd be great." Or I'll be watching a porn and thinking about 'Oh I'd like to do that.' A female fan sent me a letter telling me a scene she'd like to see and I was thinking about how it'd look on film. Most of the time when I'm watching adult film, I get into it. I actually really get into it. I look at it and think "Wow that's really good. How would I shoot that?"
QC: I read in a September 2008 justusboys interview that you're working on constructing the perfect porn fantasy and becoming multi-orgasmic. What is the perfect fantasy and how does one work on becoming multi-orgasmic?
KW: At this point, I'd rather (my fantasy) didn't get posted because I don't want people to steal it. But it has a forest type background like you'd see in San Francisco—the California woodlands; a mystical tree covered with white moths that make it look white—I'd like to get that sort of mystical look with an HD camera and shoot the actual fucking near a green screen. I'd want it to look like a high budget movie that's not high budget.
I'd go where there's a waterfall and a little bridge where the scene takes place. I'd want to catch all the mist from the waterfall on their bodies, the beads of water collecting on their bodies and rolling down, rolling down their faces while kissing, licking all the way down to get oral. It's just a really kinky fantasy, like, literally a fantasy. I don't mean a fantasy like "it's my fantasy to get fucked by women today," and not "fantasy" as in unicorns... it'd be hard to get unicorns as a background.
(As for becoming multi-orgasmic), sometimes I won't let my cock go down at all. After I have an orgasm, I'll work myself up to an orgasm right after. You're already there, just think of another thing hot right after. If I just change position enough, I can help myself for the second (orgasm) by fingering myself: it's all in the prostate. A lot of people cum and they take an hour or two to cum again. But me, it'll take two minutes. I'm good at cumming on cue. I think a person learns how to get edged in their video without cumming... if you've edged for that long and have been turned on for that long, then it's a lot easier to be turned on again. Watch a porn, try to go for a second one right away, as soon as you've cum; I've had it before where I immediately go again, just back-to-back.
QC: What's something you think a lot of people don't know about porno movies or doing porn?
KW: That's an answer a lot of us don't want to answer because it makes us sound really fake. The people who walk out their back doors and film everyday, like ourselves and Brent Corrigan... well there's a lot of people out there who actually give a shit about the work. Then there's a lot of people, they just basically put their ass on the set, spread their legs, put some makeup on and they make the sounds and it's boring to them. And I've never understood how that goes, where possibly your favorite porn star is just a really pretty person who decided to fake enjoying all the sex. Yeah, they're getting penetrated, but they're still faking it, and I've never really understood that. I don't want you to think that all porn's fake because that's not true. I may add a little bit into (my scenes) but that's because I'm in to it. There's not fake moans and groans because what would be the point of that?
Also I never knew how (porn) actually came together. I always thought it was shot straight through like everyone else does. You have to sit, take breaks, it takes 3 hours to film 15 or 20 minutes, because the directors and producers want a lot more to choose from when they put it all togeher. Now I always want to see what they throw out. And all that extra stuff you do on set that you thought was going in the film and it wasn't.
There's a rumor going around that 70% of gay porn actors have HIV... and if that's true, then the straight porn world's gotta be a lot worse. I hear a lot of people test for the actual virus rather than the antibodies that appear before. Back in the 90's all these straight porn companies thought they tested so well and then a lot of people caught it. There was this outbreak because who knows what they were doing between shoots. Everybody needs to fous on safety first and everyone needs to get tested over and over again like I do. It's just a fear factor; we all work together and if one of us gets it, then a lot of us will have it too.
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