Ask QC: I Slept with My Boyfriends Brother… Now What?

Hi Ask QC,

I was at my boyfriends family house for New Years vacation. But we had an argument on New Years eve so I ended up not sleeping with him.

His younger brother who was home from college said I could sleep in his room as he had a double bed. At the time I really thought nothing more of it than just to get some sleep.

But after talking in bed for ages it just sort of happened and we were kissing, the next thing we were fucking like crazy – and for most of the night – for hours. Actually it was some of the best sex I’ve ever had, all the more for feeling fucked up about it the next morning though. We couldnt even look each other in the face.

So the next day my BF and me said goodbye to his family and headed back into the city, his brother headed back to college. I don’t know why but I made sure I got his phone number before we left.

Even though I thought that would be the end of it (in terms of sex), here I am weeks later and I can’t get it out of my head. We’ve been texting quite a bit, seems easier to converse like that. He says he’s still straight and it was a one off but he said he really enjoyed it – for me though, I really feel that I want to take it further. Is he just saying its a one night stand to put me off? Cos I really feel we could be good together. How should I end it with my BF, should I tell him about that night or just pretend it never happened?

Jordan

Hi Jordan and thanks for writing in with your question and concerns. Getting involved with a partners relatives is always going to lead to complications, but I’m sure you will be able to resolve this situation. So, dear QC readers, if you have any tips and advice for Jordan on how to handle this situation then please feel free to share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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