Ask QC: Putting on a condom makes me lose my erection!

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Hi QC,

I’m 24 years old, I don’t have alot of experience when it comes to sex and I’ve noticed a problem that really annoys me.

I’m a top and when it comes to anal sex, I always keep it safe and put a condom on. But the problem is, everytime I put on a condom, I almost lose my erection. It’s semi hard, but not hard enough to penetrate the guy.

I’ve always tried to regain my erection by jerking off again, but somehow I can’t get it fully erect again. I’m really embarrassed when it happens, the guys always tell me it’s fine, but for me it’s a huge problem, it makes me not wanting to fuck a guy.

Fucking without a condom is no option, I don’t want to get sick. So I hope you guys could help me with some tips, because i really want to enjoy having anal sex

Thanks 🙂

Matt
Hi Matt and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Rest assured that you’re not alone with this problem, it’s more common than you may think and Ask QC’s had previous letters dealing with becoming soft when trying to top, limp when I top and losing erections. So dear QC readers, If you can help Matt in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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Apr 28, 2014 By Tim 6 Comments