Ask QC: Do I have Flaccid Fetish?

Dear QC,

I have had friends that say they think porn where the bottom doesn’t get hard isn’t “good porn”, but I usually seek it out. Not only do I look for it in porn I like it in real life too.

If I bottom I prefer not to get hard or if I do then I only want to be hard after he has done his thing. Is there a name for this?

I don’t know if it’s like a power play thing, or if it’s just hot being all about the top or if in porn it means they aren’t enjoying it… but I was just wondering if anyone else thinks this way?

Or maybe if there is a big audience for this that I’m unaware of?

Thanks,

B

Hi B and thanks for writing in with your interesting questions. Would you consider this a Flaccid Fetish or just something that turns you on? Definitely there are those that like, prefer and get turned on by a flaccid cock, whether during sex or not. Just because a guy bottoming isn’t erect during anal intercourse doesn’t mean they are not enjoying it, but perhaps that’s a porn myth? So dear QC readers what do you say about flaccid penis? Is it a good thing? A bad thing? Is there a place for it in porn or is it considered a niche fetish? Please feel free to share your thoughts and experiences to help him and all in the QComments section!

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