Ask QC: He’s so big he made me bleed

Dear Ask QC,

So I slept with this guy and turns out he’s really big (I mean HUGE), we were both a bit high and ended up fucking. Thing is he caused some bleeding and he kinda freaked on me and we didn’t finish up.

I’m not really sure where we stand now, he’s someone I’ve known for a while in our circle of friends but this is the first time we hooked up – which sorta just happened when we both ended up getting drunk after work.

He’s not been in touch since this happened (last week) and I was wondering the best way to approach this. Should I just make a joke about it and send him a text? From what I can see there is no permanent damage or tears, just probably some light bleeding from overstretching and not enough lube (or my own greed in wanting his big dick up my unused ass – I’ve kinda had a dry spell for sex and especially for anal)

Any ideas guys what’s the best way to handle this? Cheers!

Bryson

Hi Bryson and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Anal intercourse with a larger than average penis (or toy) requires a decent amount of lube (and practice!). It’s not uncommon for slight tears to occur but we would advise a medical check up just to ensure everything is okay. That said, humor is often a great way to approach a delicate or potentially embarrassing topic such as this. If you can’t think of anything too witty then just text to say you would like to discuss it with him either face to face or on the phone (which may be less embarrassing) and then just stick to the facts rather than the emotions of the situation. So dear QC readers, what advice would you give Bryson? Have any of you experienced this before, either giving or receiving anal intercourse? If you have any ideas on how to help him and his friend then please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the QComments section!

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