Fucking 101 – The Ups-and-Downs of Bottoming Like a Boss

In previous articles, we discussed expert oral service and tips for topping. Today we will flip-flop and focus on techniques for taking it up the ass.

The Power Bottom

I was disappointed to learn that the French word for “bottom” is “pasif” or “passive”, which is completely the opposite of what a good bottom should be. No one likes a “lazy bottom”. Giving up control does not mean you have no control. Just because you’re getting fucked on your back doesn’t mean you are free to roll your eyes towards the back of your head and lay there like a Sunday roast. There is a purely American invention that makes our gay porn far superior to anything else on the internet: The “Power Bottom”. Let’s look at some examples from the best rodeo riders getting railed. Being a power bottom is anything but passive.

“You better work!”

David Dakota keeps busy while on his back by playing with David Anthony

Keep your guy hard by playing with his nipples or worshipping his body with your hands. Watch as career bottom David Dakota does both to David Anthony in a scene from Titan Men. Crank up the heat further by grabbing his neck and bringing him in for a kiss as he’s fucking you. Or try a good choking if he’s not in the romantic mood.

Power play between bottom Caspar and top Barton

I love watching the power play between bottom Caspar and top Barton in this scene from Chaosmen. Caspar shows how to be a boss without being bossy.

Both Connor Kline and Phenix Saint work on their thighs

If you’re on top, change things up by taking turns. Give his hips a break from thrusting while you do the work. Watch as Connor Kline give his thighs a work out before letting Phenix Saint go to town in a scene from Men.com.

William Seed shows Ryan Bones what he’s “gonna do wit all dat ass”

If you are getting fucked from behind, remember to put your back into it. William Seed gave a phenomenal performance in his bottoming debut at Men.com by bouncing that beautiful bubble butt up against Ryan Bones.

Nixon’s enormous ass needs flashing yellow strobes as he backs up into Daniel.

In another memorable move, Nixon from Sean Cody backed up his behemoth booty right into Daniel’s dick.

“Let it go! Let it go!”

Justin Matthew’s dick does the helicopter while riding Brandon Cody.

If you are a bottom who gets hard just even thinking about a cock in your ass, don’t cup or cover it up with your hands. Let your freak-flag fly at full mast. There’s nothing hotter than watching a stiff dick wave back and forth, up and down, or side to side when a bottom is riding cock.

Corbin Fisher’s power bottom Beau opens wide at both ends as he gets impaled in a scene with Rocky.

If you’re on your back, show him your best spread eagle and let that stiff cock signal to your partner he’s doing a great job.

“Say my name! Say my name!”

If you’ve ever watched straight porn, you would know that the sound of bitches moaning or begging for more while getting railed is a huge part of the turn on and is an integral part of every scene. Gay men are wired the same and get turned on from auditory cues during sex. The best bottoms know how to give verbal feedback beyond just moaning. You might need several tries to see what your partner responds to most, but if the soundtrack of you getting pounded is anything like a William Higgins production, you’re going to need to step it up.

Practice a few lines that let him know what feels good. Give compliments on his technique, his cock or his body; or just simply let him know you think he’s hot. And if you know his name, make sure you use it as much as you use “Baby” or “Daddy.”

The king of dirty talk is Derek Jones at GayHoopla. His scene with Sean Holmes is chock-full of dirty dialogue, sweet nothings, and pep talk. It takes watching two guys have sex to a whole new level on the hotness barometer. I recommend committing a few of these gems to memory: (1) “Fuck yea, you got my cock leaking now!” (2) “Oh yea, you fuckin’ beat that fuckin’ ass up didn’t you?” (3) “Oh [Name Here], you’re a fucking beast…your dick is so hard in my ass.”

“Downward Dog” before “Downward Dick”

Sex when done right can be a strenuous activity. Make sure you do your stretches if your partner is one to get creative with positions during sex. He might put you in any number of uncomfortable positions so it’s best you take some time beforehand to warm up and get limber.

Carter Dane has no time for cramps during a scene with Diego Sans

Preparation is a must for any bottom appearing in a scene with Diego Sans. Consider the balletic extension used by Carter Dane in his scene with Diego Sans from Men.com.

Expect the Unexpected

There’s a reason why bottoms are also called “catchers”. Watch as Duncan Black catches a stray load from Colby Keller without blinking an eye or flinching in the slightest, in one of the best money shots ever captured in a scene from Men.com.

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