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Ask QC: My Tutor Is Hitting On Me!

I am an 18-year-old high school student who just finished my junior year. I’m not a great student so for the last semester my parents have made me see a tutor to improve my math skills. His name is Daniel. He’s about 27-years-old, majorly fit and handsome, and single as far as I can tell. He’s also very masculine but I always got the feeling that he liked checking me out. He would compliment me on my haircuts, ask me about my lacrosse matches, and just generally take interest in the things I do, like play music, go on hikes, and stuff.

One day when he came over, he gave me trigonometry worksheet and it was just him and I in the kitchen. Anyway, at one point I looked up and saw him staring right at me. I looked at him made a face like “What?” and he just smiled and nodded. I didn’t think anything of it until I got up to get some water and saw him adjusting his crotch underneath his table—he wasn’t fixing his underwear, he was totally feeling his crotch.

It got me really hot and no one else was home and all I wanted to do was stop with the dumb worksheet and kiss him, but I didn’t because I didn’t want to misread him or cause any trouble. So I just finished my worksheet and when I handed it in, we didn’t say anything we just kinda looked at each other and were both probably thinking the same thing. Anyway, school’s over and so I haven’t really been seeing him as often at all, but I still have his phone number.

Should I call him and ask if he wants to hang out or is that dumb or illegal or wrong or anything? He’s a really nice guy and I think it’d be cool to fool around, if he’s up for it. But I don’t know how to ask or if I should even ask. Any advice would really come in handy.

Uh-oh! Someone’s hot for teacher! We couldn’t tell from your e-mail if you’re out of the closet or if you’ve ever had a gay experience or not. But if you haven’t, that could explain why you’re feeling so attracted to your tutor. We’re not sure what advice to give you. On one hand, you can’t let your parents know because they’d probably flip out to hear about you fooling around with their employee. But on the other hand, you’re of legal age and there’s nothing wrong with choosing to hang out with an older person you like. So we’re gonna turn it over to our readers. What do you think, QueerClickers? Green light? Yield? Stop sign? Please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments.
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