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Ask QC: I Can’t Kiss After Being Rimmed!

Dear Ask QC,

I recently started dating a guy a few year older than me (I’m 22 and he’s 38). We seem fairly compatible and its been nice getting to know him and things have been progressing nicely. He’s a wonderful funny man, kind and romantic and makes me happy.

I’m not one to rush into things or jump into bed right away and am not all that experienced sexually. But, so far most things I’ve tried with him I have really enjoyed. I say ‘most things’ because recently my BF rimmed me – and yes, I enjoyed the feeling but the thing that made me nearly gag was that he then wanted to kiss me straight afterwards.

I wasn’t able too – and made a lame excuse to go to the bathroom – I feel a bit of a jerk because I know I was clean ‘down there’ and his rimming really gave me a most pleasurable experience. But the thought of me then having to kiss him straight afterwards made me feel want to puke!

Is that normal? Should I kiss him after rimming? Is it even safe?

Sorry to ask such a basic question but I’m really not sure how to handle this, appreciate any advice, thanks!

Ryan

Hi Ryan and thanks for your question, that’s certainly an interesting topic! So dear QC readers what rimming/kissing advice would you give to Ryan? Should he tell his BF to stop rimming him? Or should he tell him to use mouth wash? Or Dental Dam? If you can help him in any way, or have been in a similar situation then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section.
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