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Ask QC: Lost and confused

Hi,

I don’t know from where should i start…….well I met the most amazing guy in the world. he is kind, nice, has a beautiful smile and is so humble. He is 26 years old and works with me in the same company. We treat and appreciate each other in a good way. I have strong feelings for him that I’ve never felt before for a guy. I mean yeah I’ve had several crushes but deep down I knew that they were just crushes and they will go away. I love everything about him, as a matter of fact, sometimes it feels like looking at myself in the mirror. He is a shy person (like me), he likes to smile at people’s faces when he says Hi, he also likes to help his colleagues without waiting for anything in return (he is a giver) even if he is tired. We were born in the same month (December), well he is one year older than me. I care for him a lot and I feel the same way (as much as I think). We smile at each others faces and sometimes we make little chit chat too.

Once, when I traveled, I decided to bring a gift for him, something really simple and not expensive as I like to bring gifts for my close colleagues. Sometimes I also like to bring along some breakfast to the office and invite my colleagues to eat together. Whenever I do that, I invite him of course. But recently, especially now, I have noticed that he has changed a lot since I gave him the gift and invited him to eat with us. He is ignoring me a lot.

When he sees me entering from the front door of the company office, he pretends that I don’t exist. Once I had to hand over some work to his secretary and he was standing beside me and very close (less than a couple of inches) but he didn’t say Hi or anything at all – he just totally ignored me and then entered his own office. Whenever he enters my office to hand over some work to my colleagues or consult them about something, he doesn’t say hello or anything and pretends that I don’t exist, he doesn’t’ even look at me. He seems pretty much nervous when he’s around me and he was putting his left hand in his left pocket. Another time he entered my office handed over some work discussed something and I was actually looking at him and I was just so excited to say Hi (I know, I know, a stupid move but I couldn’t hold myself back) and then he looked at me, gave me the most cold feeling and dark look that I have ever saw in my life (more like a poker face).

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