Last month you met Jonas in his casting video, and this month he is back this time in front of the camera of Eliot Klien in Budapest. Cute, boy-next-door looks and a decent dick are what initially attracted us to Jonas, and Eliot works hard to capture both to their fullest in this photo session.
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Dear Ask QC,
I’m really hoping someone here can help me…
When I’m hooking up with someone, I tend to get a bit one track focused on the task at hand/mouth. I really enjoy giving head/rimming, but when I’m doing it, despite being into it, my dick tends to get soft. It’s confusing to me. I’m definitely enjoying what I’m doing, but my dick doesn’t ever seem to get the memo. This, itself, while problematic, is not the full issue.
Now, when I’m doing this and suddenly my dick gets called into action to top, he’s not ready to go. And, whenever this has happened and I need to get hard quickly, it just… wilts. No matter how into the person I’m with I am, when all eyes are on my dick, he becomes a shrinking violet. And the more anxious/stressed about it I get, the worse it becomes.
I don’t know what to do. This has happened multiple times with multiple partners, but it never seems to be an issue when I’m on my own and have some porn handy. And I don’t think its any sort of porn addiction, since I’ve tried watching porn while with another guy to get hard and still nothing. I just… don’t know what to do anymore.
I hate feeling like I can’t rely on my body to come through for me, and I feel like I’m letting myself and my partners down. Which isn’t helping with the clear performance anxiety element here, creating a vicious cycle.
Has anyone else dealt with this? Or had a partner who experienced this? Or does anyone have suggestions on how to get past this?
Mr Softee
Hi Mr Softee and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. Firstly, it’s good that you have still some humor about your situation by signing off with that name! Your issue sounds more like a performance anxiety condition and it may be reassuring (somewhat) to know that it is probably more common than you realize. Ask QC has discussed similar issues in the past, for example losing an erection when fitting a condom and you may find those comments in the archives useful too. The good news is the fact that you are able to get a full erection when not with a partner and this would indicate no physical problems and points more to a psychological or physiological condition. The other good news is that you will be able to overcome this – many men have! We would recommend talking with your physician or urologist who will be better able to diagnose and suggest the best treatment for this. But of course, the collective QC wisdom is always available here too, so dear QC readers, how would you help Mr S here with his issue? Have either you or your partner been in this situation during sex? What did you do and how did you resolve this issue? If you can help him in anyway then please leave your advice and experiences in the QComments section.
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Sean Cody has taken the unprecedented step of offering a $1 trial and yearly memberships for only $10 per month.
Steven is a handsome chap with a good mix of different ancestry. We love his amazing bubbly butt, succculent balls and super hot cock that fires loads of delicious cum on his lean hard abs! DAYUM!
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In the video at CFNMTV.com, Dr Bentworth has promised Alex‘s auntie she will find the cause of his wilfully inappropriate behaviour. Her initial testing has been inconclusive, so she decides that more invasive procedures are necessary.
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If you like your men 100% masculine, beefed up, hairy and in uniform then this one’s definitely for you from MenAtPlay! Dodgy businessman Jose Quevedo has something to hide but he’s been sussed out by Officer Felipe Ferro, and Felipe is determined to get to the bottom of what Jose is hiding. And since he refuses to respond, Officer Ferro tries a more hands-on approach, and he’s not shy about putting his hands down the suspects suit trousers to see what he’s hiding. Ferro’s rough handling gets Jose completely turned on and his cock gets hard the moment the beefy Police Officer touches it.
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Our smiling soldier, Gage is breaking in a much newer recruit, Seth on Active Duty. We had the privilege of meeting Seth recently, when he chatted with Claude, then stripped down and yanked his giant, oily cock.
They get down to just their undies, and Seth goes down for a nice sampling of Gage’s sweet cock. He pulls it out and gets to plumpening that tasty dick. Gage’s fatty starts popping up nicely and he removes his boxer shorts the rest of the way. He moves over to have a taste of Seth’s hardening boner for a few licks before going up on his knees to allow Seth better access to his delicious erection. Seth gives it some more caring attention before going to his back so Gage can enjoy that amazing, stiff piece of man meat on Seth.
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It’s no secret that we have a thing for blue eyes but when we’re in the presence of such a cute pair of baby blue puppy eyes we automatically get weak on the knees! Meet out new QC’s Nude Boyfriend of the Week, a blond fit lad who loves the outdoor activities like fishing and when he’s indoors he’s all about doing the nasty in bed 24/7 and between fucks he will play his guitar for you. Don’t let the angel face fool you this is one sex-driven devil with a big cock to keep you entertained for a very long time. We definitely think we have caught a big fish this time! What do you think of our latest conquest? Tell us in the comments!
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Quinn wants to have some fun with Nolan on Corbin Fisher, and looking at how hard Nolan’s dick is – he want some of Quinn too! Quinn gets down on his knees and takes all of Nolan in his mouth while he pulls and plays with his balls. When Nolan’s cock can’t get any harder, he’s ready to fuck Quinn – but first he wants to taste his cock!
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Jimmy Dube returns for his first man-to-man sexual contact. Who better to service this sturdy dude than Samuel Stone. Samuel knows too well how to make a guy comfortable and can service with talent. His masterful cock sucking techniques were clearly on display as Jimmy delivered one stiff boner to Samuel‘s expert mouth. Taking a tongue lashing not to be missed, Jimmy thoroughly enjoyed himself. His facial expressions told the full story.
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Hunter and Cole were enduring the FREEZING cold and blizzards of Boston with best bud Vic. They were having lots of fun frolicking in the snow, getting naked, and having some laughs. But that got old/COLD really fast. Vic had the awesome idea of escaping the frozen tundra of Boston to spend some time on the nude beaches of south Florida, so they flew down for a week where they went nude sun bathing and skinny dipping, and plenty of fucking!
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This weeks update is a bit longer than most, so feel free if you just wanna get to the sweaty, raw fucking which starts happening around 4 minutes, Devin wouldn’t mind 😉 Besides being crazy hot sex, these two guys, Leon and Eli, crack Devin the fuck up, and there’s so much instant chemistry between the three, it seems that they have been fuck buds for years.
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Nothing beats an upstairs apartment with a great view of the park. Nothing except maybe an upstairs apartment with a great view of a shirtless Travis Stevens working out in said park. Who better to receive the honor of “taking it all in” than Helix Studios‘ lucky looker Tyler Hill. After just a few short moments of watching the chiseled cherub below him, Tyler closes his eyes and his imagination takes hold.
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It’s a hot summer day and you are out walking the streets and back alleys looking for sex. You are wearing a tight pair of ass hugging jeans. You take a turn down a side street and you spy a hot as fuck stud jerking off , it’s obvious he doesn’t give a fuck who sees him. You stop and feel your dick getting hard. You make eye contact… This incredible scene features Jesse Ares And Xavi.
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Sexy, funny and cute Johny Cruz charms us with conversation and stories about his life. he’s a highly sexual guy, experienced and dirty. He strips off his gear, gets his big dick hard and wanks for the camera, all the while looking down the lens imagining who would be looking back at him and what they’d be doing, he wants an audience and wants them to get off!
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Front or back? That’s what some of our favourite GWiP’ers seem to tell us with their body language! This new edition of GWiP’s Top Ten Of The Week is a feast for the eyes. There’s so much candy at this store that we don’t know where to begin, it’s like everytime we have settled in one hottie of our choice the next one seems to top him with a bigger asset. Ripped muscles, washboard abs, perfect butts and huge cocks are competing to get our undivided attention. Who’s your pick for the week? Tell us in the comments!
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