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Hi AskQC,
I’m Jet, 19 yo and dating an awesome man of 32. We get along really great and I’m learning a lot sexually from him as he is more experienced. He’s been patient with me but I’m so eager to be fucked so far it hasn’t really worked out quite right. I douched an all that so I was clean but he has a thick cock and I just can’t stretch that wide. He says I will be able to and suggested to wear a butt plug during the day before going over to his place. So basically I need advice on stretching my hole, is a butt plug the best way to do this? I’ve seen a few different ones online, like metal and silicone and I can get a range of sizes and I know I need to lube up. But my concerns are if I wear a butt plug during the day will it rip or ruin my hole? I mean will it stretch it too far and not go back? I really wanna be fucked and hoping this is the best way to make my ass ready, any tips and advice are welcomed, thanks.
Hi Jet and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. You’re right to be cautious and ask advice about using sex toys physically. You will be amazed to learn that the anus can stretch and return to normal, however, it should be noted that prolonged use of very wide toys could cause prolapse. This is when the muscle tissue is torn or damaged and it will not only be painful but could require medical surgery if that happens. I do not wish to alarm you as this would occur in only those extreme cases, you are right to seek advice and go slowly, start small and build up. We do not advise wearing a butt plug for extended periods of time (ie days/weeks), a few hours before you meet your date will help with anal stretching to be able to accommodate a girthy penis. Make sure you clearly follow the safety guidelines provided with the sex toy and proceed with caution, if it’s too painful then stop. If you try for a small amount of stretch for a few minutes and over several days and slowly build up to longer periods of time and a wider butt plug. However, if you are still experiencing pain and unable to stretch further we suggest seeking professional medical guidance at a genitourinary clinic.
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