Ask QC: First Time Tie Up

QC Ask: First Time Tie Up

Dear QC,

I’m 24 years old and have been with my current partner for 2 years. Our sex life has been great, so far, but I want to spice it up and keep it exciting and fresh. We regularly fuck (both versatile) and have done it pretty much in every area of our home and at different times of the day as and when!

I was thinking about tying up my partner and edging him or fucking him, but I want to make this exciting and a surprise rather than a sort of calculated thing. Not having tried bondage before, I actually wondered whether this would be too much of a shock/surprise for my partner or is it even considered rape (for example) if I haven’t discussed it with him first.

Like I say we have been together for 2 years (and actually known each other for longer than that), but will I be doing anything really wrong if I make this a surprise in the bedroom or do you think I should discuss it first with him? My feeling is that this will ruin the element of surprise and take away the spontaneity and excitement of it, but I’m a bit concerned if he freaked out over it.

Has anyone done this before and any suggestions?
Kyle.

What advice would you give Kyle, dear QC readers? Please feel free to share your own experiences and advice to help him in the comments section.
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03 Sep 08 By Tim 5 Comments

David at FirstAuditions.com

David at FirstAuditions.com
David is a young fit rugby league player, a good Christian boy who is only after “normal” sex. Full pouty lips, smooth young body and thick healthy cock! First Auditions was lucky David held up through the whole audition given how the boy nearly freaked out at the intensity of a simple interview about sex. It is obvious he is a total amateur with no experience whatsoever. His terror at being so fully exposed while being examined intimately on camera for the first time makes perving at his athletic body that much hotter!

03 Sep 08 By Laam 1 Comment

QC World Headlines

News, then more porn
AFRICA
Pretoria, South Africa – Gay men refused by hotel service staff. [SOURCE]
Senegal – Belgian jailed two years for “homosexual marriage and acts against nature.” [SOURCE]
ASIA / MIDDLE EAST
Ahmedabad, Gujarat, India – New website tries to link gay natives with same-sex marriage partners.[SOURCE]
Dubai, United Arab Emirates – Lesbians jailed for ‘indecent acts’ on beach. [SOURCE]
EUROPE
Bologna, Italy – Security forces to launch association for openly gay officers. [SOURCE]
Britain – New rules allow religious schools to discriminate. [SOURCE]
Brussels, Belgium – Members of European Parliament debate anti-discrimination proposals. [SOURCE]
Cambridge, England – Pink Festival attracts 12,000 revelers. [SOURCE]
Scotland, United Kingdom – Member of Scottish Parliament confident that hate crimes bill will be law next year. [SOURCE]
United Kingdom – Lesbian rapper nominated for community award. [SOURCE]
Wales, United Kingdom – Gay priest could become a bishop. [SOURCE]
NORTH AMERICA
Boston, Massachusetts – Suspect in South End anti-gay attack pleads not guilty. [SOURCE]
Mexico City, Mexico – Mexico City approves name changes for transsexuals. [SOURCE]
Minneapolis, Minnesota – Federal Court says school discriminated against gay students. [SOURCE]
Minneapolis-Saint Paul, Minnesota – Log Cabin Republicans Endorse McCain for President. [SOURCE]
New York – Suit against gay marriage recognition tossed out. [SOURCE]
New York City, New York – Man confesses to killing 19-year-old gay student. [SOURCE]
Vancouver, British Columbia – Transsexual says Vancouver political party nixed Parks Board candidacy. [SOURCE]

03 Sep 08 By paperbagwriter 2 Comments

QCA Art: Icarus

In the heat of fashion...
Look! Up in the sky! It’s a bird! It’s a plane! It’s a modern retelling of an ancient Greek myth! Renowned international photographer, Francois Rousseau has re-imagined the Greek myth in a modern dystopia in a shoot for Out.
If you recall the myth, Icarus and his renowned craftsman dad, Daedalus, were imprisoned in the very labyrinth Daedalus built. Apparently, daddy had pissed off King Minos by giving the king’s daughter a ball of string so her dumb boyfriend, Theseus, could find his way back through the maze after killing the minotaur (a badass half-bull half-man creature).
Anyway, Daedalus decides to fly the coop by building he and his son a pair of wax and feather wings. But he warned sonny boy “Fly too high and you’ll get burned.” Being the adventurous little scamp he is, Icarus flew too close to the sun and melted his wings. He flapped and flapped his bare arms like Wily Coyote in a Warner Brother’s cartoon and fell through the sky headfirst into the Icarian Sea where he died. Wow. Great story. Happy ending.
What does this have to do with the hot men in the photos above? Well, in this imaginative, modern-retelling of the myth (how very modernist), Icarus stands outside the physical confines of the labyrinth, the barely clad Icarus and lost among a distressed alienated brood who fit him with wings and lead him to the cliff’s edge— is Icarus their only hope for escape or is he a sacrificial outsider?
Everyone seems somber and worried. Icarus himself seems resigned to his fate. He flies and fails, as expected. But after his radiant wings melt onto his body, the men surround him in a sort of pieta. They all avert their eyes, too guilty to behold the beautiful, ruined boy or one another. Only one man on the right, fires a defiantly accusatory gaze directly at another.
The imagery stays archetypal but the modern twist raises interesting questions: Why all the well-dressed alienation? Why the nearly nude Icarus? Are his melted gold wings a comment on pop idolatry or materialism? Is Icarus a symbol of good-intentions gone wrong? No matter the answer, the photos above are beautiful and the men hot.
But it brings to mind other re-imaginings of the Icarus myth, namely Flemish painter Pieter Bruegel’s Landscape with the Fall of Icarus and the poem it inspired from the gay writer W.H. Auden entitled, Musee des Beaux Arts. You can see the painting, the poem, and a very short behind-the-scenes look at the shoot all after the jump…

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03 Sep 08 By paperbagwriter 3 Comments

Three Lads in Paradise at EnglishLads.com

Threesome in Paradise
Take two gay lads, fly them to a tropical paradise, throw in a third straight one and you are guaranteed some horny action! Shaded from the scorching sun below the banana trees these lads splash around in the water, then at the pull of some shorts it turns all sexual! As the shorts gets pulled down, their uncut cock are real stiff and you’d think this was the first time any of them had seen a naked man after years of lusting after one! Cocks get sucked and the straight one gobbles before he gets sandwiched between the others, fucking and getting fucked. The lads fuck and fuck some more, the sun makes some hot with passion before they all dump their load on Anthony’s face!

03 Sep 08 By redmonkey 3 Comments

aussieBum Presents “It’s Your World”


It’s been a killer year for aussieBum! Between their hot photo shoots in the outback and beaches of Broome, releasing Spin and Splice (two breath-taking new styles in vivid colors), and sponsoring the only openly gay male, gold medal, Olympic athlete, Australian diver Matthew Mitcham, they certainly have a lot to celebrate. This quick hot video recaps in rapid-fire their antics this year and invites you to take part by ENJOYING YOUR LIFE. Enjoy.
Previously on QC:
aussieBum’s Outback Adventure
aussieBum’s Spin
aussieBum’s Splice
aussieBum interviews Matthew Mitcham

02 Sep 08 By paperbagwriter Write a comment!

Adam and Nathan at BlakeMason.com

Adam and Nathan
Adam is back at Blake Mason and this time he has met his perfect match, Nathan. Adam is one of the most aggressive tops at Blake Mason and Nathan is just such a very eager bottom. Adam loves to kiss and Nathan just seemed to love having Adam’s tongue deep inside his mouth. It didn’t take these two guys much time to start sucking and devoring each others hot uncut cocks. Before long long, power top Adam is giving Nathan the fucking of his lifetime. There is a lot of passion between these two hotties and it sure shows on camera. Nathan finally shoots a hot load while Adam’s cock is deep inside him, and when it’s Adam’s turn to shoot, he does it like the man he really is.

02 Sep 08 By redmonkey 2 Comments

Tyson Beckford Teases

Dark Moon!
You may recognize Supermodel Tyson Beckford from Ralph Lauren ads or as the co-host of Bravo network’s reality series Make Me a Supermodel. Well, here he is fooling around with his gal pal at the Marie Claire Cocktail Party this weekend. Not only are the pics playfully naughty and boyish, but they’re also pretty damned hot. He’s got a killer body, beautiful tattoos, and from the look of it, a plush set of pubes. Sadly, his towel stopped short of baring all, but that’s OK, Tyson— you’ve only left us wanting more.
His parents are both Jamaican, but his paternal grandma is Chinese, and his maternal grandpa is Panamanian. That’s what gives him his “exotic” look which has made him so damned hot and in demand.

02 Sep 08 By paperbagwriter 8 Comments