I just got out of a considerably successful 8-year relationship. So that means the last time I was single, people still used Myspace, Tom Cruise hadn’t even met Katie Holmes and Lindsay Lohan wasn’t a hot mess.
We met when I was 19, and he (not Tom Cruise) was my first boyfriend, love and gay experience all rolled into one. It may sound like a recipe for disaster, but it worked until it didn’t, which was about 2 months ago.
Needless to say, at the ripe age of 27, I’ve set out to salvage the rest of my twenties to make up for lost time. And possibly experience a downward spiral or two (that was a joke, I think).
My ex and I enjoyed many years of delicious, unprotected sex. I never worried about wearing a condom or contracting a nasty disease because we got tested together and were monogamous. Looking back, my only worries surrounding my first sexual experiences were “will it hurt when you put it there” and “should I swallow when you put it here?” Now, with the prospect of being with new people, I worry more about contracting a nasty STI or HIV or herpes or even a cold. I’ve taken proper precautions (in my mind) with a fresh test for the usual suspects and a stockpile of condoms.
How can I enjoy sex with someone new, while being safe and without worrying about whether or not my health is at risk? Where is the line? Is it really down to trusting the other person’s word? At what point do you have that conversation with a potential partner? Am I over-thinking this?
Signed,
Single, sex-starved and scared
Hi there and thanks for writing into Ask QC with your questions and concerns, I’m sure our readers will have some ideas on how to help! Having an active sex life is certainly something you shouldn’t exclude yourself from, but staying healthy and taking the right precautions is even more important! So dear QC readers what advice would you give? Have you ever been in similar situation? Where you in a long term and sexually safe relationship suddenly to find yourself young, free and single again? How did it work out for you? Is “Single, sex-starved and scared” over thinking this or just taking sensible precautions and not being paranoid at all? If you can help him resolve his dilemma or come to terms with this then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section. Need advice? Just send in your questions and the QCollective will get you some answers!
When SoStro first met Gino, they didn’t have to beat around the bush about what they had in mind for him. He said that he was open to try anything so they thought they wouldn’t waste any time and put him to the test. They figured Logan deserved this one.
If last week was love at first sight, we don’t know how to describe our latest crush. With his well-proportioned body, his cute smirk and his hot-out-of-the-charts cock, seriously the head of that thing could do some serious damage, in the best possible way, we think you guys are going to love our new Nude BF of the week as much as we do!
More after the jump!
These Couples know how to keep their sex lives interesting. They have the hottest, spontaneous sex at home, and you get a chance to watch their passionate love-making unfold. Landon Conrad and Trey Turner know the importance of dealing with morning wood in the bedroom. Angelo Marconi and Topher DiMaggio keep it spicy by turning up the heat in the kitchen. Before an evening out on the town, Bryce Star and Boston Miles like steaming up the bathroom with a heated exchange.
Trenton Ducati loves the taste of Phillip Aubrey. He licks the young stud’s rippled washboard abs and uses his expert tongue to massage Phillip’s thick cock until it’s rock hard. Trenton licks and sucks Phillip’s cock to the base then stands up so Phillip can put his tongue to work.
This horny xTuber needs it, and he needs it bad! You can tell how much mate needs somebody, he’s like in desperate heat and craving cock for his hole, which makes this wank session even more hot. Watch him cum, loads of cum, and talk dirty in this extremely hot vid just for you.
More after the jump!
Regular QueerClick readers will be very familiar with why we love the guys from RadVideo. They always have exclusive discount codes for our readers, they offer FREE SHIPPING on all orders, and the orders reach you in just 48 hours!
This weekend if you enter the coupon code “sexeducation” during checkout you get the British Sex Education 2 DVD free!
Out by the barn and resting on a bale of hay, burly Dirk Caber has his furry buddy Trent Locke in his muscular arms, passionately kissing and enjoying the feel of his hairy body and his growing bulge. Finding a hole in Trent’s jean, Dirk tears open a hole, exposing Trent’s thick swollen cock.
