Ask QC: I’m a Top with a Small Cock

Dear QC,

Hi, I’m 22, I’m a masculine, well built college jock – except in one department, my dick isn’t exactly big. Tbh it’s only 4” when hard and it’s causing me a real problem.

It seems all the bottoms I dated want “well hung” and it’s doing my head in seeing the look of disappointment when I drop my trousers for sex. A couple of guys have even laughed, which I kinda laughed it off too at the time, but really it was very crushing.

Look… I know that every top isn’t hung like a porn star, and I realize that there are lots of bottoms who are “size queens” but is there anyone out there who is going to accept a top like me who has a smaller than average cock?

I even tried bottoming for a while, but it just doesn’t do it for me, I didn’t enjoy the experience or feeling. I have this really strong urge to fuck, not be fucked.

Tbh it’s really starting to get me down and depressed. At high school it didn’t really bother me as I was in the closet there, but when I moved to the city for college 2 years ago I came out.

Admittedly most of my dates have been through the apps but I’ve yet to meet a guy “normally” as in friends or common interest first and got to know each other before jumping into bed.

Any help? I’m not sure what to do and this is destroying my confidence in dating guys. When I tell guys on the apps my size I usually get blocked, but should I tell someone if I am regular dating or do I wait until we have sex and then…

Any advise is welcome – thanks!

RR.

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