New on TheBroNetwork: Work isn’t bringing much happiness to Clark Delgaty, the bartender at a stylish local bar. He has to cover for the regular bartender who called in sick.
He gets even more irritated about being there when he runs out of things to do and texts his best friend Liam Alyesto.
In this exclusive new video from IslandStuds, 30-year-old bartender CJ from Seattle loves flaunting his rock-hard nipples, sexy bubble butt, and personal exhibitionist tales.
He works as a bartender at a local gay bar and enjoys a good rim job. In the video, CJ reveals that his name is his initials, Johnson, which he believes is appropriate for his job in porn.
I’m fairly new to the gay scene an all, I’m 18 and still living at home and not out to my family. I’m in a small town in Kentucky with the nearest major city is an hour drive and so I’ve been using the dating apps to try to get to know guys and even meet up.
I recently had an experience on Grindr that left me feeling quite vulnerable and confused. I met someone who was really hot, a few years older than me and looked really sexy. He seemed sincere at first, but as we continued to chat, I started to feel that something wasn’t right. The pictures he sent were slightly blurry and he didn’t have an album of photos to share, which struck me as unusual.
When he asked for nudes, I suggested moving the conversation to Snapchat to verify his identity, a precaution I usually take. He agreed and added me, but when I asked for a live snap, he sent a picture that was identical to one he’d previously sent on Grindr. When I confronted him, he denied it was the same picture, but then he blocked me on Grindr. He continued to message me on Snapchat asking for nudes, but I blocked him there too.
I’ve heard of catfishing, where people use fake profiles to trick others, but I never thought it would happen to me. Is it a big problem on Grindr? I’ve learned that there are different types of catfishers: some use other people’s pictures to trick you into talking or meeting them, and others are scammers trying to get personal information or photos.
I’m feeling a mix of emotions – a bit dumb and embarrassed that I fell for it, angry that I was tricked, and worried that it might happen again. I’ve been reading the Advice columns here on QueerClick but couldn’t find anything on this topic. I’m gonna guess that there loads of the readers here that use the dating apps and could give me some advice. How can I spot a catfish in the future and what should I do to protect myself from this kind of situation?
Any advice you guys can give would be really appreciated.
Thanks,
Caleb
Hi Caleb and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns.This is an interesting topic to raise, especially as it is important to stay safe when meeting and hooking up with other guys when using dating apps. Sadly we think it’s all too common for cat-fishers to be present but you’re right to make sure to verify who you’re talking too. Live video and other platforms/apps are a good way to verify if a person is real, but even then we would advise that you take caution when meeting up in person for the first time. Make sure it’s in a public place and somewhere you can exit quickly if you feel uncomfortable with the situation. And always let another friend know when and where you have arranged a meet up. So dear QC readers, what advice would you give Caleb? Have any of you experienced this before, if you’ve been previously catfished, what precautions do you now take to avoid it happening again? If you have any ideas on how to help him with this issue then please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the QComments section!
Magnus seizes the initiative and confronts his “hunter,” calling him out. Luckily, this time the “hunted” is happy to hear that he will not be rolled but will instead be extremely happy with his new neighbor.
New this week on Freshmen.net: John Leto and Freddy McQueen join other lads on the beach in Cape Town, however John and Freddy aren’t that impressed with the chilly ocean water.
New on NextDoorStudios, an ASGMax site: Recently, Scott Finn and Carter Woods were engaged. The issue? Ryder Owens, Scott’s closest buddy, feels that Scott is going too quickly.
The guys don’t need to feel each other out because they have a history together. Logan eagerly goes down on Daniel, pounding his hole with passion in between cocksucking and making out.
As it’s his turn to suck Logan, Daniel works over his hole and drills him with an energy that’s a little bit edgier.
So by now we imagine we are all quite familiar with Hans Lagerfeld, he’s been at this for quite some time now, but did you know he’s on Flirt4Free, where he says he still hasn’t found his limits. Go on and help him see if you can possibly find them! Continue with “Flirt4Free: Hans Lagerfeld”
New on Masonic Boys: After receiving an anonymous note, Apprentice Devall (Dex Devall) was told to wait in the woods at a designated spot. There, he was ambushed, had his hands tied behind his back, and was blindfolded.
The guys entered the ceremonial room, and Master Patrick (Eddie Patrick) motioned for him to kneel between his legs. Eddie reminded him that in the Order, obedience was the most important thing, and released him only after the Apprentice firmly acknowledged this.
In Mexico City, the NakedSword crew is having a conversation about everything from hot and steamy hookups to the vicious pounding Alfonso Osnaya is about to get with newcomer Edgar Ruso.
Ready to go, Alfonso jumps up on the kitchen island to be rimmed and begins deepthroating Edgar.
New on Sean Cody: Shamu Azizam and Jackson Cooks have done too many sets in the gym and they are in some pain so need a massage to relieve the tension.
Kieran enters and begins to loosen up their bodies, and then suddenly he’s fingering and licking holes and things get very interesting…
In the new video ‘Police Raid’ at CMNM.net, when PCs Ryan and Kal get a tip off about an illicit farming operation they think they’ve really cracked the case and will be rewarded as heroes. Little do they know they’ve been led into Adrian’s fiendish scheme by his minion Kris.
