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You may remember Rocco and Toby on BukBuddies or HornyHounDogs individually... and what a treat for us to see them together. Even better is these guys can't seem to make up their minds about who gets fucked. That's right! They take turns fucking each other. Hot! See all the details at HornyHounDogs...
We'd like to keep everyone posted about the QC Gallery (we receive too many emails a day asking us when the gallery will see the light of the day again).
We're in the process of moving the entire gallery to a new server so it can handle the traffic better. Migration will take some time as you know the gallery is how we like it - HUGE.
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Gymnast pin-up Alexei Nemov has something for you.
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You guys sure dig Agent Michael Vaughn. Michael is now filming thriller "Rogue" as an American journalist on assignment in the Australian outback who encounters a man-eating crocodile.
Wow, even the crocs wanna eat him alive! I know, let's feed these crocs with some more images before they get a real stab when the movie opens in 2007!
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Queer Candy - Michael Vartan
Ricky always dresses finely with a bulge to match.
For more sportsmen and celebrity bulges, check out the ever increasing collection at The Bulge Report.
When Mason was planning on going to LA to work with Randy Blue, RB asked him who he would love to work with. His answer? Kody!
They took some liberties with this video to make it different and the sex is unbelievably real and hot! Kody about turns on 99.9% of the guys RB casts him with with. The boys just cannot get enough of that body, face, and huge, thick, fuck pole of his! Mason of course is beautiful as well - all American and muscled and a very nice uncut cock! Watching the two of them together is like magic.
More Pictures "Kody & Mason at RandyBlue.com"
They guys at Shane Sixty took Eric out for another shoot because his first one turned out so well.
Eric's got an awesome figure and he'd really been hitting the gym. Check out his first Cover Model portfolio, as well as two nude spreads at ShaneSixty.com.
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Wow! In my opinion, 21 year old Vadim is freakin' sexy as fuck. I mean, he's dark, stunning and a nice hoo hoo (Interpret that however you like!) what else do you need?! Check out all of the images at RealBoys4U... and let us know what you think of Vadim...
Meet 25 year old Colby, a new face to ASG. But for those of you who "get around", you must have seen him elsewhere. He popped by to visit Doug & Jay a few weeks back.
More Pictures "Colby & Ken at AmateurStraightGuys.com"
Roaming around the man candy shop at Big Muscle, we stumbled on this blue-eyed hottie and knew right away he'd be the perfect choice as this week's Cute Enough for QueerClick guy. Mical is a 29 year old New York City stud who's done some professional modeling, showing off his sweet smile, hot body and very nice cock. His profile name is nyc_bottom_mical, but judging by the looks of that equipment, we think he might do just fine on top too (even though he says it's rare that he ends up on top).
If you think you know of someone who's CE4QC, let us know!
How nice to see a man, instead of a boy on PerfectGuyz! Meet Zach: He's got killer blue eyes, a rugged, handsome face and a hunky, slightly hairy body — but you can see that. According to PerfectGuyz, there's more: Zach is intelligent, charming, and an accomplished surfer and all around athlete. Click Click to PerfectGuyz to see more of him, plus the video of him in all of his glory!
Dear Readers,
A recent comment encouraged me to remind readers that I post bi-weekly on Mondays and Fridays. I appreciate all the comments and encourage the readers to offer helpful advice and suggestion(s) as well. Due to a recent event in my family, I had to cut the column shorter today than I normally would. I hope to be back at full speed by the end of the week. Until then keep reading and commenting and remember to keep good-mental health for you are worth it.
Doc. Feel
Doc- I can't believe I'm writing. I generally skim your column when it's posted to QC. Today I read it word-for-word. It felt like it had been written for me.
First, the Jim West reference also went over my head.
Next, I am Depressed-but-can-still-pretend-not, to a T. I've said almost all of what he said in his message to you, even recently. In fact, I was once told by a therapist that part of my problem is that I am too aware of my problems, and I readily admit that I might be a happier person if I could stop thinking, stop analyzing everything (including sex). As I get older -- I'm in my late-30s -- I think it gets worse, kind of snowballs on me. I dwell on my failures, and I feel my life has been nothing but failure.
I am seeing a therapist now and, as you suggest in your message to Depressed, I am trying to be as open as possible, to let go of the notion that I can fix anything by myself. I also started meds a week ago, though I'm not yet feeling any effect (and know that I need to give it more time). This is not my first time with either therapy or meds, but I think I'm definitely more open to the former this time, even if it may just be out of exhaustion and desperation.
I was diagnosed as bipolar many years ago, which brings me to Hopeless's letter. That's where I am now. I've been here before; intellectually I know things can be better, but emotionally I don't agree -- or don't care. I've been in bed for the better part of a week, now, getting up only when family responsibilities force me to do so or my roommate prods me to the point that I feel I have no other choice. In the last few weeks I've started repeating patterns I know too well: I've quit two part-time jobs, leaving me with absolutely no income now; I've pushed friends out of my life again; I've been dating a great guy, but not long enough that he'll stick with me through this; and now it's the end of the month and I can't pay my insurance, my car payment, or my rent. I, too, feel hopeless. I don't believe I can get out of this situation. I feel like I'm on a sinking island surrounded by sharks and I can't get off because I have burned all of the bridges.
Why am I so self-destructive? I haven't gotten to that point yet. I suspect my increasing "need" for BDSM is a manifestation of that, but I constantly flip-flop between, "There's nothing wrong with consensual kink," and, "There must be something in my past that made me like this." I sometimes think I seek a cathartic release. I often fantasize about a man who will so overwhelm my senses, though physical and emotional torment, that I have no choice but to be there and only there, that I can't analyze, that I must be in the moment. I was told by my therapist a couple of weeks ago that I have all of the pieces and that I just need to assemble them. That made me feel a little better, but he's been on vacation, I've lost that weekly landmark, and all I want to do is run, somehow get away from my life.
Then I read Rag Rugger's letter and I had to look over my shoulder to see if you were there. Only once in my entire life have I ever gotten off by any method other than my own right hand. It frustrates me more than I can verbalize, makes me self-conscious, and -- as with everything else in my life -- the fear becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I know (because I read way too much about my issues) that you can become so used to one method that it becomes hard to get off any other way, but I'm alone most of the time and have zero willpower. (I've often wished a guy would lock me in chastity so I had no say in the matter, but that's a different issue, I'm sure.) Last week I was with the aforementioned guy-I've-been-seeing, a man I find sexy and intelligent, whose company I really enjoy. We were making out and it was great. Then I started to wonder if I was hard enough, what was going to happen if we got to that point, if he was going to be disappointed with me. Naturally, I lost any tumescence at that point. To compound the frustration, I now have a hard time getting off at all, even by masturbation.I want to cry, but can't: I'll start, but instinctively choke it back, no matter how much I try to let it go. I want to move, but don't: I have no reason to get out of bed anymore and can't find any motivation to do anything. I want so badly to be able to look forward, but am always focused on the past, beating myself up for a lifetime of failures, a minimum of friends, and what could have been -- what should have been.
The credit rating I worked for a decade to improve is going right in the crapper again. In the next few weeks my car will be repossessed and I'll be evicted. My thoughts are muddled, angry, destructive. I have no friends or family who can help.
I don't know why I'm writing, really. Maybe I thought writing this out would help, but it hasn't. Your column definitely hit home today.
You can sign me,
Bull's-eye
Dear Bull’s-eye,
Your therapist is right on the money stating you have all the pieces. You are not confused about what is or should be. You know completely that YOU are self destructive. I am not going to fluff this because you are past the ego stroking and fluff. Cut out the bullshit. YOU are crippling yourself. No other way around it. You do not live in a fantasy world where some made up guy will come into your life and take control and solve your issues. Wake up, it is the real world where adults are responsible for making their lives the best they can. That happens by getting your ass out of bed and going to work. You don’t keep jobs by staying in bed, quitting jobs and throwing the covers over your head. Let me make this clear to which you already know: Your car will be repossessed because YOU CHOOSE to not go to work, YOU CHOOSE not to get out of bed and YOU CHOOSE to push your friends away. Life doesn’t fix itself and unless you inherited vast fortunes you must get out of bed, go to work, pay your bills and continue focusing on you bettering your life LIKE EVERY OTHER PERSON IN THE WORLD who is not declared incapable by their governing bodies.
The past is over and done with. Stop playing the victim because that will only get you placed in a cardboard box on a cold street. If your therapist is on vacation you find one to substitute until he/she returns. You continue seeing someone, taking your meds and giving yourself a chance to feel better instead of quitting, hiding and then boo hooing because your life is crumbling. Any medication and therapy won't solve your problems unless you are willing to work the therapeutic goals and plan set forth in your therapy sessions. No "wonder pills" exist that can change your life. You are intelligent and insightfully introspective so take control of your situation and your Bipolar disorder. I have a feeling you are stuck in a Recycling Bipolar mode which causes you to become victimized by ruminating on past issues and blocking you from complete focus on the here and now. You have the ability to express and communicate. You can talk to your employer and boyfriend if you can find that communication within yourself. It sure couldn’t hurt things. You have been down this road before and you can either choose to keep falling in the potholes or taking the exit ramp and changing the course of your life.
Wishing You Good Mental Health,
Doc. Feel
Hi Doc,
I am Jimmy. I am a 20 years old, single asian guy. I have a sense of humor and a strong mind, but sometime I got depress for no reason. I miss my relatives in VN, which causes me to depress occasionally. I always try to set my path straight: going to college, getting good grades, learning and trying new stuffs. Then once in a while, I would get depress on a specific event like on a holiday or at the end of a semester (after finals). Do you know if there are like motivational strategies that help me to focus more on school works? Any suggestions from you will help.
Thanks Doc.
Jimbo
Dear Jimbo,
You are homesick buddy. Homesickness can cause serious depression. I can offer you several suggestions:
1. Think of time not in weeks or months, but one day at a time.
2. Speak to a counselor at your school or other students far from home, they are feeling it as well.
3. If possible call home at least once a week.
4. Use instant messaging programs such as AIM, AOL, YAHOO, MSN to chat with family on a regular basis.
5. Email is often easier than snail mail (postal service).
6. Remember your goal of succeeding and why you are at college. College does not last forever and the benefits last a lifetime.
7. Try to establish some close nit friends where you are and let them know you are having a hard time being away from home. It is not uncommon.
8. Use a blog to write about your feelings and possibly give you family in VN access to your blog so they can share their feelings with you as well. Journaling and blogging about feelings really becomes a useful tool.
9. Bring pictures from home and things that remind you of home. It helps you feel connected.
10. If you are at college and have the chance to rent a house or apartment with people of your own ethnicity or situation, it can often feel more home like than a dorm room surrounded by strangers.
I hope This Helps,
Doc. Feel
Email Doc. Feel: DocFeelQC [@] gmail.com
Doc. Feel is a psychotherapist who has worked in the gay community for the last 12 years. He is currently co-authoring a book focusing on Domestic Violence within the GLBT community.
Our DVD got jammed in the disc tray, so we must apologise for this very late instalment of screengrabs taken off Japan Pictures' Kinniku League.
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Japan Pictures - Kinniku League (Part 1 & 2)
Do you know that Michael had wanted to be a professional pool player before deciding to act instead? Being an avid sports fan he plays hockey as often as he can. This attribute has also been given to his "Alias" (2001) character Michael Vaughn, who plays pickup hockey occasionally with his co-worker characters. His favourite NHL Hockey team is the Los Angeles Kings.
Although born in France, he comes from a complex ethnic background - his Bulgarian-born father is half Armenian and half Hungarian, while his American mother was born in Poland, and is of Jewish descent. The handsome guy speaks fluent French, paints and plays the guitar.
noun: a bear who possesses features such as hairiness or beard, but who has a slender build.
In two earlier novels, Blue Heaven (1988) and Putting on the Ritz (1991), Keenan adapted and updated P.G. Wodehouse to his own original and side-splitting ends. Now, after a long hiatus largely spent as a writer and producer on the TV show Frasier, Keenan has produced a comic masterpiece - My Lucky Star - that in intricacy of plotting and brilliance of language rivals the best of Wodehouse.
The Plot
Keenan sends his down-on-their-luck heroes - ordinary guy and narrator Philip Cavanaugh; Philip's unscrupulous pal and former lover, Gilbert Selwyn; and their brainy friend, Claire Simmons - to Hollywood, where Philip ends up helping aging, has-been movie star, Lily Malenfant, pen her scandalous memoirs.
In fact, Philip has been hired as a spy by Lily's more successful actress sister, Diana, and Diana's son, Stephen Donato, a closeted, male action-star, who both have good reason to fear the dirt Lily plans to dish.
Enter the boys' nemesis from Blue Heaven, Moira Finch, and their fortunes plummet in a series of misadventures involving blackmail, male prostitutes, impersonating a police officer, and a sex act caught on videotape that's as audacious as it is hilarious.
By the end, a vindictive DA thinks he has Philip and Gilbert at his mercy, but of course he didn't reckon with Claire, who comes up with a solution to their troubles worthy of that which Jeeves uses to save Bertie's neck in The Code of the Woosters.
Marketed primarily to gay readers, Keenan deserves to win a large, appreciative audience of all sexual persuasions with this tour de force.
The order you should read Keenan's books: Putting on the Ritz 1st, Blue Heaven 2nd, and My Lucky Star 3rd.
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Jake Cruise met these two hot studs stripping in Ft. Lauderdale, and was able to entice them back to his studio. These two have a great time playing with each other. Then Luis, with the massive cock, dominates the hunky blond Peter, who eagerly takes all those inches up his ass. You can watch Peter writhe in agony and ecstasy while Luis fucks him hard and fast.... all on JakeCruise.com...
Captain America: red, white, blue and hot all over!
Damn, this super-stud knows how to fill out a uniform and harness one stiff shield. Makes ya just want to stand erect and salute the buff bastard, over and over again. After all, the stars and stripes have never looked this good!
Attention Queer Clickers! At-tent-ion!
The Short List on Bloom
-2002 U.S. Olympian, finishing ninth in moguls.
-2005 World Cup overall champion with a record-tying six consecutive World Cup wins; eight out of nine podiums.
-2003 World Champion in dual moguls, silver medalist in moguls.
Did You Know?
-Became the youngest man to win the overall World Cup title in 2002 at age 19.
-Fourth World Cup win in 2004 and five other podiums; won two World Cup mogul events in 2003; 2002 U.S. Nationals champion.
-Proclaimed he would compete in the Salt Lake City Olympic Winter Games at age 11.
-Started skiing at Keystone Mountain when he was three where his mother was a ski instructor and was an alpine racer before turning to moguls.
-Motto: "Compete like you are number one, train like you are number two."
-In 2003, made first team freshman All-American in football, third team All-American punt returner…In 2002, longest pass reception in CU history at 94 yards against KSU for a touchdown, first punt return in college career was 75 yards for touchdown.
-Ruled “permanently ineligible” by NCAA after pursuing Olympic dream and accepting skiing endorsement deals. He turned his eligibility fight with NCAA into an athlete rights advocacy.
-Featured in a national television ad for Under Armour, a 10-page pictorial in the November 2004 issue of GQ and was the cover boy for Abercrombie & Fitch 2004 Christmas catalog.
-Voted one of the “Sexiest Men is Sports” by Sports Illustrated for Women in 2002 and Cosmo Girl “Eye Candy” in 2003.
-Was all-state receiver at Loveland High School, where his team won the Colorado state championship his senior year; caught 48 passes for 1,116 yards and 12 touchdowns in 2000.
-A speedster on foot (as well as skis), he was a three-year high school letter winner in track and a member of the state champion 800-meter relay team his junior year.
This multi-sport stud has got it going on! Looks and talent? Jeez, the snow of Torino hasn't got a chance. It'll be melted in seconds with this hot shot on it.
Click for the gold Bloom. We're behind you all the way! (Wink. Wink.)
More Pictures "A Bloom in Winter"
Check out these sexy screenshots from the latest videos at FratMen.tv of Mitch. We like his thick cock, lean build and incredible ass. Seriously, my jaw dropped as he walked away from the camera by the pool. His cum shot in the tub was the only thing that distracted me from that vision! Click click over to FratMen.tv and judge for yourself...
Rise and shine, sexy! Ahhh, how we'd like to wake up with Jeremy East and help the poor guy out with his rock solid morning wood...
Click click to Jeremy East to see all of this photoset, plus high-res video too!
Matt is nineteen and has just passed his football coach exams, his body is solid, lean and toned like a natural athlete. He has played football for years and loves showing off his ball skills (ha!), he can do more or less anything you ask, either clothed in his football kit or even with a hard on! Check out more of Matt at EnglishLads...
We love to take a look at some of the wild bachelorette parties in Male Strippers Unlimited latest "Best of" gallery! Mmmmm... those are some damn fine, chiseled stripper dudes! While not all of them happened at women-only parties, it's hilarious to see some of these women go nuts. (I guess we can relate!). Enjoy the party over at Male Strippers Unlimited...
If you like your men big, built, and hairy then, boy, SeanCody.com has got the boy for you this weekend!
More Pictures "Caleb at SeanCody.com"
Brent was one of those curious guys who openly admitted when they started to shoot the video that he'd thought about doing stuff with another guy but not yet had the opportunity to act on that. From the moment Corbin Fisher first laid eyes on him he had immediately and severely wanted to see him with another guy. Physically, he's stunning! And that big dick of his was practically made to plunge into another young stud's ass!
More Pictures "Brent Fucks Logan at CorbinFisher.com"
While we love us some good naked horned-up boys (obviously), we also feel like it's more important than ever to be conscious of also spreading the word and helping our queer brothers and sisters out.
Our buddy (and QueerClick fan) let us know about this one. Last weekend a fire devastated part of the The AIDS Project of Central Iowa building in downtown (well, the east village actually) Des Moines. Since 1991, The Project helps people living with HIV to achieve the highest quality of life available. The Project is non-profit human service agency that relies on the valuable work of volunteers and charitable donations.
If you wish to make a donation, you can mail it to:
AIDS Project of Central Iowa 730 E. 4th St., Suite 100 Des Moines, IA 50309
... or visit their Website to learn more.
(P.S. We think it's important to give back to our community. And if you'd like to spread the word about a particular worthy cause, let us know...)
Hear hear! You guys requested to see more of our Superheros, so here you go! Our Superheroes doing what they do best, saving the world, courtesy of Ice Man.
More Pictures "The Art of Iceman"
We not just smutty, we can appreciate beautiful photography too! We love the artistic nature of this new Berlin Male photoshot of Tristan. The angles. The light. The expression on this hottie's face. Don't take our word for it, go admire this artistic beauty at Berlin-Male...
The QC Team would like to wish a "Happy Chinese New Year" to all! Have a good one. It's 'Lou Hei' time!
Woof x 2!
BukBuddies gives us a double-whammy, first with Mikel and now Bruno...
Check out these two sexy real men along with all the other hot fuckers on BukBuddies...
Woof! (Mmmm)
Check out all of the extra sexy shots of Mikel at BukBuddies...
Here's another scorching webcam show from Str8Cam Jeff he did two weeks ago.
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Fort Bragg is investigating accusations of inappropriate conduct that appear tied to a gay pornography website. The Fayetteville-based site claims to have pictures of active-duty soldiers.
There's unconfirmed rumours that the site may be Dink Flamingo's Active Duty.
(Source: WRAL.com & Yahoo! News; and thanks to Diego & Dace for the tip!)
When Mike Hancock first saw Gary Fountain's application he was struck by the innocence of his face. “What would a nice boy like this be doing in a biz like porn,” Mike asked.
It's the innocent looking ones that bring the most surprises. And Gary proved that true. While he liked having his dick sucked, it was surprising how much attention he was giving to his butthole! We'd say this audition is just a glimpse of the good things Gary will be willing to give up in the future. We can't wait...
But for now, check out this boy's sexy look over at Mike Hancock . com
ASG's newest find is Brett, a handsome stud from Arkansas. He’s 19, stands 6’3 and has a built-in Tent Pole for when he goes camping!! (Search for that pole yourself)
He loves the outdoors, fishing, hunting, and bareback horse riding. The first thing that struck Doug when he met Brett (other than thinking he was casting for Brokeback 2) was his handshake. His grip could break bones – everyone mentioned it when they shook his hand. He just shook his head and said “I thought I was taking it easy on y’all too.”
More Pictures "Brett at AmateurStraightGuys.com"
acronym: codeword for gay (429 spells GAY on the phone)
Hey y'all! Looks like you guys are getting all cosy and comfy over here. We saw about 300+ comments posted on the site in 24 hours! That's a record you set!
Keep up the exchange 'cos we like the site sticky! ;)
Frankie or Franklin as his mother calls him is a straight dude Rob contacted in the chat rooms while he was advertising for models on the Internet. Franklin IM'd Rob asking for more information and they got into a conversation about the videos. He knew where Rob was going with this because he sort of nonchalantly asked if this was gay. Rob didn't want to mislead the dude so he told him that it could be more than just jerking off to pussy porn and that's when he asked "how much and for what?"... the rest is history.
Frankie has never let a guy suck his dick before and has had dozens of offers to do it online but never even thought about it until Rob waved that amount of money. He just couldn't resist at least trying it. Rob made the whole experience sort of like a business transaction for him to make him feel less like he's being seduced by a gay old pervert and it worked fantastically.
More Pictures "Frankie at MilitaryClassified.com"
Hey, Doc!
In a recent posting, BB wrote: ... Is he as disturbed as a I think he is or is he another "Jim West" who goes off and marries a women and tries to ruin LGBT rights because they are that disturbed and lost in their own life?
D-u-h-h-h ... I feel totally out-of-the-loop! Can you write me what the reference to 'Jim West' is all about? Should I know his name? Who is he? And, how is he trying to ruin LGBT rights? I'd really appreciate any info you can provide!
Thanks!
Clueless Al
BB didn’t write that letter, but below you will see the Jim West reference. I think the reference to Jim West and his views of his brother were completely uncalled for and totally unrelated. Jim West Story
Dear Dr. Feel,
I have a question and would really appreciate your help.
I am a reasonably successful person, a young professor teaching a very good university. Many people consider me good-looking and they also love my fun personality. One thing I don't understand is: why do I hate myself so much? Whenever something goes wrong, I always blame myself like it is always my fault. A slightest mishap can make me feel me abusing myself really bad (so far I have resisted this self-abusive impulse). A friend of mine did notice that underlying the appearance of my fun personality there is a shocking amount of anger and it comes out very easily. Maybe I should see a therapist, but I wonder how they can help me: I know all of my problems (I think I do). So my problem is not lack of self-knowledge (maybe too much of it already). I guess I just want to get a sense of how a therapist works with a client so that I can make myself to try that out. I did try a therapist a friend of mine recommended to me, but it didn't help me at all. Maybe I am just a difficult case...
Depressed-but-can-still-pretend-not
Dear Professor,
Therapy will not work for someone who doesn't want it to work. If you want help with your problems you need to go into therapy being open, honest and willing to work the steps given to you by a therapist to improve your situation. I realize you are a professor, but therapists, psychotherapists and psychologists are specifically trained professionals that deal with all forms of the human psyche everyday. If you place yourself above their expertise before going into therapy you are not open to healing. It is absolutely wonderful that you think you know what your problems are, but you are likely missing key elements into why they exist that a professional in the field of Mental health could clearly manage.
Being good looking and a professional does not make one like themselves. In fact, it is more common for wealthy-physically attractive and professional men and women to have a higher percentage of low self esteem. Now please recognize that not every therapist or counselor works for everyone. You need to visit 2-3 professionals and openly discuss your core problems and then decide which of these professionals you feel most comfortable with (not because they'll agree with you) and which of the professionals seem most likely to help you.
Once you have the name or names of several psychologists, there are several questions you'll want to ask, including:
Are you licensed by the state?
How long have you been practicing?
What areas do you specialize in (i.e., family therapy, marriage counseling, etc.)?
What kind of treatment do you usually use, and why do you feel this would be effective for my situation?
How long would you expect my treatment to last?
What are your fees?
You can also use this site or by calling 1-800-964-2000, you can be connected directly to the state or local referral service for psychologists in your area.
I hope this helps you and remember, you are doing this for you because you are worth it.
Doc. Feel
Doc Feel,
I enjoy reading your column and really respect your opinion which is why I am writing to you. I am 21 years old and I have been depressed on some level for most of my life. I see other people my age in school, knowing what they want to do, dating, enjoying life. I, on the other hand, seem to have lost my life goals along the way. Some days I feel fine, even to the point where I'm driven. I'll make plans on how to improve my life, set goals, research my options, and plan how to follow through on those goals. Some days I feel so down and dark that I get out of bed only to go to the bathroom; those days usually start and end the same way: with me in bed and crying. I know that sounds over-dramatic but it's the truth. I'm not trying to sound like a whiny, angsty, soul for the sake of grabbing some attention because I wouldn't waste your time like that.
My depression started to get worse about 2-3 years ago. I had just started to connect with a new group of friends (I had recently cut a group of other 'friends' go because they never seemed to care about me. But that is a whole other story), I was dieting and exercising, getting healthy, starting to apply to college programs, doing great in school. All in all, it was a great chapter in my life and I was truly happy. Eventually, I started to become lost. I'll try my best to explain it (because even I still don't know how I got to where I am today): I started to feel as if I had become 'my diet'. I wanted to be a success story but I didn't want it to become me. I wanted to be about more than Atkins and the Graphic Design program I got into. It was about that time that I slowly stopped caring because I thought that not only was I not even worth all this work I had been doing, but that even in the end, if I reached my own definition of 'perfect', that I STILL wouldn't be good enough for anyone.
College started and by that time I had lost everything I had worked hard for (physical-wise) so nobody could even tell that just a year ago, I had been four pant sizes smaller. I met some amazing people at college who really respected me, and I felt I could just be myself around them and not have to worry about them running off (I did, and they stayed). My friends from high school had all moved away around this time, or were busy with school/work/getting their lives in order. I commuted to College (2 hours a day. I know, craziness) so getting together with that group of people wasn't always possible. Basically, I felt alone. Feelings of depression were coming back, and this time with a vengeance. I have never gotten along well with my family, because every time I went to any family member with a problem, they would belittle it or accuse me of being melodramatic (this time was no exception).
I began to stop caring about everything. I would go to school (when I would bother to go) in pyjamas, and barely say anything to anyone. I wouldn't keep appointments with friends; sometimes making up lame excuses, sometimes not even telling them at all (I lost many a friend that way) and all the while, being unable to articulate to them what I was going through.
I eventually dropped out of college because my marks were suffering and I didn't even care. Since then, I've worked one summer job (not my first job, mind you) which ended in November of '05. I've been unemployed and aimless since. I have been looking for work, but not doing a good job at it. The idea was for me to get a job closer to downtown so I could move out on my own, and perhaps do night school once I get settled in. Every time I land a job interview for a job that would work out for me ( i.e. good location, close to schools and affordable apartments) I end up not getting it. With each new job interview, I prepare even more, making sure my resume is more professional and I look more professional but still no dice.
The bottom line is this: I feel hopeless. Like my life has derailed itself badly and I have no idea what to do or where to start. I'm hoping you can give me some advice. Anything you could tell me would be greatly appreciated. I've attempted suicide a few times before and I fear that if I don't do something soon, that my depression will eventually get the better of me. Thanks in advance
Dear Hopeless,
Plain and simple you need professional counseling/therapy. What you are describing is a mania of extreme highs and extreme lows. I can not diagnose you without you being a patient, but I highly suggest you make an appointment immediately with a Psychotherapist and or Psychologist in your area. What you are describing is a Bipolar Disorder that can easily be treated once a diagnosis is reached to best classify your level of disorder. This can only be done in person with office visits. Bipolar is the most common disorder that goes untreated in the country. It often leads people to ruining their lives, friendships, careers and health because people are afraid to seek treatment. The truth is Bipolar can easily be treated and a life of normalcy can be attained by counseling and if warranted a medication. Please do not be afraid to seek the professional help you need. If you do not have insurance, you can speak with the professional about “sliding-scale fee’s” and/or ability to obtain financial assistance through various ways.
I promise you as a professional that if you take these steps and seek appropriate help your life will begin to balance and make complete since within 1-2 months. You deserve the normalcy of everyday life and most importantly you deserve peace of mind that seeking treatment will give you. You are worth it. Your life is worth it and YOU are the only one who can make the difference by taking those steps to get the proper treatment. I suggest you print out your letter to me and let the professional you go to read it. It would be helpful to them. You can use this site to find a professional in your area or by calling 1-800-964-2000, you can be connected directly to the state or local referral service for psychologists in your area.
Again I urge you to seek this help. I promise you are worth it and your life will change drastically for the better.
Good Health,
Doc. Feel
Hi Doc Feel, I appreciated your response to "Towel Boy," the guy who masturbates by grinding against a towel. I'd like to go one step further, though. That is how I started getting off - long before I knew it was masturbation I just knew it felt good. So anyway, for over 10 years that's been how I've had to do it. But now it is literally the only way I can reach orgasm. I'm embarrassed by it and frustrated when I'm with a partner. It has resulted in a lack of interest in sex with the same guy (maybe I'm lumping 2 problems into 1) because it is boring for me to have to get off this way every time. I have to find novelty in sex with a different guy, which has led me to be sexually unfaithful. So I'm wondering what you think I could do to make sex more interesting, bearing in mind it is very difficult for me to get off in any other manner, sometimes leaving my partner worried "it's him." Ugh, so many issues in one problem. Take a stab at it. :)
Thanks very much!
~Towelboy's Cousin, Rag Rugger
Dear Rag Rugger,
Your problem is habit based. The only way to break a habit is to change your behavior and how you view the habit. You can easily train yourself to get off without the towel and multiple partners. It basically comes down to do you want to change or not? If you want to change get busy, put the towels away and if you are having a difficult time sticking to one guy, don’t get involved within an exclusive relationship until you can control yourself. Take responsibility for your behavior and don’t hurt others by worrying them that the problem is theirs. Novelty with sex is fine, but using and discarding men and their feelings goes deeper than becoming bored.
Toweling Off,
Doc. Feel
Email Doc. Feel: DocFeelQC [@] gmail.com
Doc. Feel is a psychotherapist who has worked in the gay community for the last 12 years. He is currently co-authoring a book focusing on Domestic Violence within the GLBT community.
After some lengthy drinking sessions and plenty of encouragement, Jack agreed to make the film for Blake Mason. Fortunately, Jack stayed true to his word and showed up ready to be filmed. He was nervous about getting naked in front of the camera, but he soon relaxed and gave plenty of cheeky smiles and began stroking his nice cock to a very satisfying climax. Check out the photos and video of this initially shy guy turn into a damn sexy exhibitionist at Blake Mason...
Well, it's evening over here now, but we thought you'd like some more of Lucas' morning wood!
Lately, Corbin Fisher has been experimenting more and more with minimizing his role in the scenes and letting the guys share themselves with us directly, allowing their personalities to both guide the scene as well as shine through. Lucas was perfect for such a shoot, because he really does have a winning personality and presence in front of the camera.
More Pictures "(More of) Lucas' Morning Wood at CorbinFisher.com"
Former Cork City striker Kevin Doyle has been nominated in two separate categories for the forthcoming FAI International Soccer Awards. Doyle, who joined Reading in the summer, is shortlisted in both the Young Player of the Year and Under-21 Player of the Year sections.
For more sportsmen and celebrity bulges, check out The Bulge Report.
Well, MAP certainly didn't get its name by promoting "men-sitting-around-doing-nothing." The site is all about men in action and Jason & Tanek seem to be well aware of this.
What starts out as a rather ordinary shoot suddenly turns into a suited wrestling match with the winner taking all! And that winner – this time around - is Jason.
Suits get wet! Shirts are torn! Nips get chewed! Cocks are sucked! Arses get rimmed! Loads are shot!
What more could we ask for?
Nice one MAP.
A new biography of Marlon Brando is expected to cause friction as it reportedly features a photograph of the screen star engaging in oral sex with another man.
"Brando Unzipped" by Darwin Porter exposes the actor as a prize lothario, romping his way through Hollywood with the biggest names, both male and female.
The sensational tome says, "From Rock Hudson to Vivien Leigh, from Bette Davis to Cary Grant, Brando slept around, even managing to seduce two of America's First Ladies."
Publishing group Blood Moon insist the jaw-dropping image of Brando and a male lover may come as a surprise, but it is treated "tastefully".
Spokesperson Danforth Prince tells the New York Daily News, "We ran it at a tasteful two inches by one and three-quarter inches on page 404."
Tasteful or not, QueerClick has the image for you.
(via ContactMusic.com)
Rip your eyes out, guys.
(via The Superficial)
DANG!! Our mouths are watering...our visions are blurred...and only one word comes to mind...
More Pictures "Alexander at LatinJocks.com"
Hot new candidate over at MilitaryClassified.com. We'll be back with more.
When Sean Cody first met Warren at the mall, he knew the girl that he was with was nothing but trouble. She just gave off this "princess" vibe - you just knew that everything was about her. Apparently they had been going out for about a year, and SC was guessing that it had probably been about that long since Warren (also a recent divorcee) had gotten a decent blowjob (it wasn't hard to imagine her saying "You want me to put that in my mouth?").
Obviously, SC was anxious to get Warren with someone who would appreciate his hot cock and give it the attention it deserved!
More Pictures "Blowing Warren at SeanCody.com"
Midnighter: Dark, brooding and super-sexy, he's always decked out in black leather from head to toe. Think Batman with even more of an edge and a bigger bulge to boot.
Apollo: Bright, powerful and oh-so-hot, he's powered by the sun and is just as scorching. Think Superman on fire with loins of steel.
What do these two superheroes have in common? On the surface - nothing. But deep down below - an unending love for one another.
Members of The Authority, a series created by Warren Ellis and Bryan Hitch, the comic was released in 1999 by Wildstorm. Notable for its intense graphic violence and visual flair, the comic was often described as a "widescreen" comic, and was quickly known for the uncompromising attitudes of its characters (leading to them often being described as fascists).
Midnighter and Apollo, first introduced as partners-in-crime and friends in a comic series titled Stormwatch, soon found themselves in each others arms, hearts, and beds. Married soon after their relationship took flight, they also took on the important roles of dad and dad to a fellow team member after adopting her.
Super-sexy. Super-studs.
Indeed!
Hey Kids
Here I was scanning the pictures posted last week of "outdoor sex". The picture half-way down the collage looked vaguely familiar. Upon closer inspection I realized why - my feet are in that picture. That was one of the MANY shots taken of myself and my two chaperones at Dore Alley in San Francisco. It was my birthday and Mom's good buddy Michael Brandon of Raging Stallion Studios arranged for the trip and my "tour guides".
After digging around I found the disc with my personal pictures for that wonderful day that I got to walk around with Steve Richards and Marc Sterling basically fucking and sucking their way around the fair. Mom was in Heaven!
Enjoy these shots from Mom's personal gallery.
M'wah - M.
(image source: CzechBoys.com)
Good morning, Lucas!
It's been way too long since we last saw you!
Lucas is by far one of CF's most popular guys and there are countless reasons why Lucas is such a star - his country boy charm, his amazing body, his hard on that doesn't quit, the eagerness with which he goes at it in every scene he's in, that handsome and hot face, those sparkling blue eyes, that ass you could munch on for days.
The hot boys just keep rolling in. Check them out at CorbinFisher.com.
Love it. Hate it. Say what you will. But, Brokeback is here to stay!
The fashion world, as always, is currently scrambling to rope in the next great trend and it appears that the style of our beloved cowboy is riding off, in all its gay glory, right into the sunset – hand in hand, stud to stud – as well as right onto the runway.
Yee-haw!
Personally, I prefer my studs with a little less on – hence the last three bucking broncos – but I wouldn’t kick any of these sexy stallions to the curb.
It truly is the clothes that make the man.
We couldn't find any biodata about the latest addition at VarsityMen.com. But at least there's a name - Toby!
More Pictures "Toby at VarsityMen.com"
You asked for it, so oblige we must! (Just remember to send some pats on our backs after you're done with business)
Meet Brent's pet python. Beware! It spits fresh jizz!
More Pictures "(More) Brent at CorbinFisher.com"
CD is a straight homeboy living in Santa Ana. The Mexican spends his time working and raising his family. He says he has a lot of straight friends who fuck around with gay guys, but he says he doesn't even though he's been propositioned at clubs.
Check out BiLatinMen.com for other hot latinos.
Guys, the download link we posted which pointed to the video file was probably swapped by the webhost when we went to bed (due to heavy traffic?). Imagine our horror too when we read your comments about the Printing Lady! YIKES. It wasn't meant to be a joke. We're reuploading the video now and will keep everyone updated.
We all know Mason, right? We've seen him on CorbinFisher.com many a time and here is his debut on RandyBlue.com.
Randy had wanted to photograph him back a few months ago but alas, he had to be patient whilst he was busy with the other porn company. Randy's patience pays off big time here and you'll see why Mason is well worth waiting for.
More Pictures "Mason at RandyBlue.com"
Canadian skater Jeff Buttle started skating when he was 2. This 24 year old will be representing Canada in Italy during the Olympic Games this February.
Enjoy the 2005 Canadian Champion and World Silver Medalist's beautiful performance at the 2005 Grand Prix.
Tony did one shoot when he was 18 just for fun for a friend and ever since has wanted to do a full adult shoot! This time around on EnglishLads, he starts off little shy but is soon confident at showing off his body. We especially like his QueerClick jumpsuit...
Click over to EnglishLads.com to see more of Tony...
After all that hot (and controversial) boy-boy action over the weekend, here comes another cock-stirring solo update from the Corbin Fisher Academy.
We agree with CF's suspicion that Brent's going to be quite popular on CF. With a smooth, sculpted body (he's been body building since he was 12), hot tan, big 8-inch cock, sweet blue eyes, super hot ass (to die for!!!) and being just 18 years of age (full of fresh spunk!!), he's quite the package! Even his mannerisms and the way he speaks are a turn on!
More Pictures "Brent at CorbinFisher.com"
Here's another shot showing Nick Carter's ample lunchbox! Now watch it in action!
For more celebrity bulges, check out The Bulge Report.
Brazilian model Tiago Riani.
(Thanks to Sexo Platonico)
Each week, QC will be bringing you GLBT News from around the world. At QC, we strive to bring you the best in adult sites, pics, and gayness. So now we are adding some news to help keep you informed of what’s going on in our world. This saves you the long searches of finding what is going on right now and the top headlines that effect our community. Please feel free to discuss the articles and or offer opinions or your views. QC is always interested in what you think and have to say.
It helps to be gay if you want more pay
Gay men working full time earn on average £34,200 per year, compared with the national average for men of £24,800, according to a survey of 1,118 readers of ...
Gay group questions ‘American Idol’ judges
The Fox talent show elicited a response from the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) after judges Simon Cowell and Randy Jackson made what the ...
Report calls for equal rights for gay people
A new report from the Equality Authority has called on the government to introduce equal rights for gay and lesbian people, similar to laws in the North. ...
Going for broke in battle over gay vows
Orange County attorney Richard Gilbert says the lawyers fighting for same-sex marriage across the country are leading the gay and lesbian community astray. ...
Sharpton chides black churches over homophobia, gay marriage
... 20, urging them to "turn up the heat" in black churches to combat clergy who preach anti-gay messages from their pulpits. Rev. Al ...
Commitment Ceremony Protests Virginia Anti-Gay Measure
... Supporters of the constitutional amendment say it's needed to make clear that Virginia doesn't have to recognize gay marriages or civil unions performed in ...
IRONS TOO COMPETITIVE TO BE GAY
British actor JEREMY IRONS insists he could never be gay - because his competitive nature would get in the way. The KINGDOM OF HEAVEN ...
Gay mayor aims to move town forward
LONG HILL — Gina Genovese's selection as the first openly gay mayor in New Jersey surprised political pundits, but perhaps even more amazing, they found, was ...
Study: more gay sex in the UK
Around 15% of people surveyed by The Observer said they have had lesbian and gay ‘sexual contact’ in their sexual lifetimes. ...
Gay men form a new kind of fraternity
... As stereotypes are frequently challenged, Delta Lambda Phi, the nation's oldest and largest gay fraternity, is helping redefine Greek-letter life for thousands ...
Alliances renew gay students' lives
... "I think the GSA here has raised the level of awareness with staff and students about GLBT (gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered) issues," said Laura Jensen ...
WWE to embrace the 'B' in GLBT
Reports coming the world of professional wrestling indicate that the WWE is planning to introduce a bisexual love triangle to their body slammin' fun, in a ...
'Best Places to Work’ Gives Choices to Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual ...
WASHINGTON - January 23 - The Human Rights Campaign Foundation today released Best Places to Work for GLBT Equality, a new online resource that gives job ...
UW responds to hate crime
In response to the alleged hate crimes that occurred in Ogg Hall, University of Wisconsin Interim Provost Virginia Sapiro issued a statement Friday condemning the crimes…
AOL Music launches gay music site
NEW YORK (Billboard) - AOL Music has launched a site called "G-Sides, Music for the GLBT Community," which it says features "the gay and lesbian artists we love ...
Hey Jay Friz! We are looking for you! We need to get in touch with you so we can send your prize for the Caption This! Contest which we ran awhile ago to you.
Please get in touch with us immediately! Hear from you soon.
On your mark. Get Ready. BLOW!
In the first ten minutes of this video shoot with Kole and Hayden, the intensity between the two of them was palpable, and they wanted to be doing everything all at once!!!
Finally, at ten minutes into it, they called a break, had a little downtime, took a little breath, and re-approached in a little more orderly fashion...
More Pictures "Kole & Hayden at ClubAmateurUSA.com"
Thanks guys, and sorry about the mix-up, this bloke's Dennis Rodman!
We're not exactly sure we approve of the pants, but hey, we won't reject a free view.
For more celebrity bulges, check out The Bulge Report.
All-American Heroes presents Fireman Buck in all his cum coated glory.
Enjoy!
During Marcus' last visit Doug & Jay knew they had to pair him up with a hot, beefy stud and immediately Nate came to mind. Marcus is bigger than Nate but not by that much. Nate has been a little action "hungry" recently so he was totally up for hanging with the pair and Marcus one afternoon. They wanted the guys to get all hot and bothered first so Marcus and Nate cruised the net together looking at girlie flicks.
The hotter the action got on the computer the hotter the guys got and eventually both of them "whipped it out" and started taking care of some of their sexual frustrations. The intensity grew on the computer as the video played on and so did Marcus and Nate's.
Catch the full video at AmateurStraightGuys.com.
Blake Mason's latest duo were instantly attracted to one another. So much so that the night before the shoot, both guys had to be separated and checked on to make sure everything was "kept on ice" until the photoshoot/filming the next day. As you watch the video of these guys, you can definitely tell they were into each other. The action is pretty darn hot as they kiss, suck, 69, rim and finally get down to some hot ass fucking… ending with Jay cumming while being fucked hard and Dave unloading on Jay’s back. Click over to BlakeMason to see all the juicy details for yourself...
Guess what? Tommy’s back on Next Door Buddies ... and this time with new Next Door Buddies model, Tim. The duo start of with some nice heavy petting and feeling, which leads to undressing, which leads to some friendly cock stroking, and then that leads to Tommy pushing Tim onto the bed and eagerly sucking down Tim’s hardening cock. That evolves into a 69, which after a few minutes, gets flipped around and Tim is on top, throat fucking Tommy. A very hot scene indeed with an awesome double jerkoff-cock rubbing-nut-on-eachother cum shot. See the whole thing on Next Door Buddies...
