noun: An attractive woman who befriends gay men because she enjoys their company. "Fruit fly" implies sociability and a love of gays, whereas "fag hag" implies an ugly woman who hangs out with fags in hopes of seducing one.
ex: "What bitch? Puh-leaze! I'm no 'fag hag.' Your momma's a 'fag hag.' I am a 'fruit fly.' I'm here because I like the sweetness, not because I can't get laid."
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brilliant!
I don't hang out with women. We have nothing in common.
@ Moron
"I don't hang out with women. We have nothing in common."
Well u like Men don't You?
Oh jeez...
Male-to-male bonding is nothing at all like "heterosexuality". Two guys together are four testicles existing as one maleness. How many women have testicles? Let's count them... Ok... Here's the answer... NONE!
If women had testicles, yes, then we would have something in common.
And, I don't have a "feminine side". I never did. I never had any interest at all to be a girl. And i don't now and i won't ever in the future. I'm not some "third sex", whatever the hell that's supposed to mean. I'm not a girl who accidentally got into a boy body. From the very beginning i was never anything but male. My mind is male, my body is male. Why do i like being with other guys? Because, duh-h-h, i'm a guy. Same wants to be with same. Testicles want to be with testicles. Male wants to be with male. It's the way we are.
Like i said, i don't hang out with women. We have nothing in common.
Also, did i ever gush how good looking Paul Donahoe was? No, i didn't. I don't care if he's "good looking" or not. What did i say about him over and over? I complimented him on the very fine pair of testicles he had hanging between his legs. Testicles that had the zing in them to make him want to succeed as best he could at what he was doing.
No guy would ever have to worry that i will try to emasculate him because i never would. His testicles will always be 100% safe with me. I safeguard his testicles just as strongly as i would my own.
I do not emasculate guys. They are my friends, my comrades, my companions. Can the same be said about women?
Touché, moron!
Fruit fly or fag hag... I would politely and diplomatically make it clear to a woman that i was not interested in her social company. The less i'm around women, the better i like it. I may have to work with women at times, but i never have to socialize with them.