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Ask QC: Dirty Bottom OCD

Ask QC: Dirty Bottom OCD

Dear QueerClick,

After years of only going as far as giving and receiving blow jobs, I recently started having anal sex. In all scenarios, I have always bottomed because I am a clean freak who borders on OCD. I laboriously clean and prep myself whenever I go out in the event that I do hook up with someone. I don’t want any accidents while in the mist of getting it on and fortunately haven’t ran into any.

My problem is, I don’t want to always bottom. There have been numerous instances where I have wanted to top a guy but my clean freak tendencies cause me to worry about whether or not the guy has bothered to go through the cleaning process as thoroughly as I have. (I highly doubt anyone goes through as thorough a cleaning process! =P)

So the question is, what are the rules of etiquette if fecal matter does happen to become present during sex? We are talking about the ass after all. I’m sure it has happened to numerous guys. How do I handle myself? Is it okay to ask if a guy is clean down there before we begin play? Do I ignore its presence and continue? Is it rude to stop to address it? Is it rude to stop all together? What’s the standard procedure?

I don’t know what to do and would love some help. Any past scenarios and how it was handled would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Clean Seeker

Are you a dirty bottom hater, like Clean Seeker? What advice would you give him, dear QC readers? Please feel free to share your own experiences and advice to help him in the comments section.
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20 Nov 08 By aaron 12 Comments

QC World Headlines

QC World Headlines 11-19-08
FEATURED STORIES (from left to right): Australia – Entertainer Marcia Hines and hundreds of other donate time, resources, and expertise to HIV-awareness campaign. San Francisco, California – Castro residence of gay Vietnam vet Leonard Matlovich recognized. Washington, D.C. – Anti-gay hate-church Westboro Baptist planning bus campaign? Tampa, Florida – Swearing-in of gay commissioner draws crowd.
ASIA AND MIDDLE EAST
Bangalore, India – Indian police accused of “social cleansing” after another attack on trans community.
EUROPE
London, England – London police breaks agreement by allowing anti-gay reggae “murder music.”
Minsk, Belarus – Leading gay activists in Belarus meet face-to-face with leaders of the far right in Minsk.
Sweden – Swedish parties disagree on form of gay marriage law.
Wales – Immigration activists target BMI over deportation of gay artist.
NORTH AMERICA
Boston, Philadelphia – Station runs fake promo of anti-gay jokes mocking Gay Games.
Canada – Tories adopt forced HIV-testing policy for emergency workers.
Chicago, Illinois – Patient sues over HIV+ kidney.
Chicago, Illinois – Not all happy with revised then shelved gay high school plan. [2] [3]
Colorado – Gay freshman congressman Polis arrives in Washington.
Concord, New Hampshire – Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders seek to legalalize gay marriage throughout New England by 2012.
Dallas, Texas – Mother of young AIDS victim, Ryan White, to speak on Dec. 5th for World AIDS day.
Edmonton, Alberta – Crystal meth linked to sex, alcohol.
Fresno, California – Lesbian mom asked to quit PTA over Proposition 8.
Islip, New York – Anti-bias taskforce tackles racist murder and Ku Klux Klan.
Las Vegas, Nevada – Recently outed lesbian comedian Wanda Sykes comes out amid gay-black divide. [Associated feature: Healing the gay/black divide]
Lawrence County, Pennsylvania – Law mandating porn stores to close on state holidays ruled unconstitutional.
Massachusetts – 5 years later, state shifts views on gay marriage.
Montpelier, Vermont – Lawmaker to introduce gay marriage bill.
New York City, New York – Out actor Cheyenne Jackson to star in horribly offensive Mormon musical.
San Diego, California – Suspects in Indian gay slay arrested.
San Francisco, California – Christians accosted in Castro are part of Joel’s Army, a pro-theocracy group.
San Francisco, California – Anti-Prop 8 California judges face recall threat.
San Francisco, California – Castro residence of gay Vietnam vet Leonard Matlovich recognized.
San Juan, Puerto Rico – Country bars discrimination toward gay couples.
Santa Barbara, California – Study reveals gays and lesbians serving openly in the Middle East without undermining mission.
Santa Cruz, California – County joins San Francisco suit against gay-marriage.
Tampa, Florida – Swearing-in of gay commissioner draws crowd.
United States – At least seven gay officials named to Obama transition team. [2]
United States – Dating site eHarmony to launch separate gay dating site as settlement deal. [2] [3]
United States – Bilerico Project to host liveblog with anti-amendment leaders.
United States – Nationwide protest organizers, Join The Impact, ask gays not to work or spend, but organize for LGBTs on December 10th.
United States – White knot ribbon a growing symbol for gay marriage movement.
United States – Trans Doritos commercial may head to Superbowl.
United StatesSports Out Loud becomes Compete: The Gay Sports Magazine.
United States – Study: Republicans stymie sensitive HIV research.
Washington, D.C. – Anti-gay hate-church Westboro Baptist planning bus campaign?
Washington, D.C. – Lead sponsor of bill looking to repeal gay military ban hopes for repeal of DADT in first year.
OCEANIA
Australia – Entertainer Marcia Hines and hundreds of other donate time, resources, and expertise to HIV-awareness campaign.
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20 Nov 08 By paperbagwriter 1 Comment

男体盛り

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日本の伝統的性的道楽のひとつである女体盛り(Nyotaimori)。今年公開されたハリウッド映画『Sex and the City: The Movie』でも、登場人物のサマンサが、恋人のために女体盛りをやっていたりて、海外でも日本の伝統的性文化として広く知られているようです。そんな女体盛りですが、もちろん男性バージョンの男体盛り(Nantaimori)もあったっていいですよね。こんなアルバイトがあったとしたら、ただ横になってたらいいだけだけど、じっとしてないといけないから逆に大変かな。笑 でも直接肌の上に寿司を置くのじゃなくてよかったです。毛深い人とかだと特にちょっと気持ち悪いですよね。

20 Nov 08 By ryu Write a comment!

Rugger Bugger: Jason Demetriou

Jason Demetriou
Jason Demetriou has been dubbed the “man of steel” and is the captain of the tough rugby team the Wakefield Wildcats. Rugby players on opposing teams seem to see this as a challenge and frequently tackle the big muscular stud on the pitch. As you can see this leads to some intriguingly horny results. Just look at players using this opportunity to stick their fingers in his tight asshole and wrench his shorts back to reveal his hefty package. See much more of Demetriou and other ruggers uncovered at Ruggerbugger!

20 Nov 08 By Laam 1 Comment

Wednesday Wrasslin’ Round-Up: Ebony & Ivory

Wednesday Wrasslin' Round-Up: Ebony & Ivory
There’s something sexy about the touch of light and dark skin. Maybe it’s the contrast of two forces coming together. Maybe there’s harmony in passion and the opposite ends of the spectrum actually want to touch. Maybe we’re just horny and we like watching guys from two different races get hot and sweaty together. Either way, this week’s Round-Up features two matches with white and black competitors. They’re handsome, tough, and as ever!

ROUND ONE: Alex Koslov and Scorpio Sky (part one) – Moscow Russian stud Alex Koslov really enjoys kicking sexy Scorpio Sky in the face and we really enjoy watching his muscular body and bubble butt as he holds Scorpio in a sideways headlock. In the first video, Alex and Scorpio get each other in and out of arm holds until 5:40 at which point there’s a hot schoolboy pin.

ROUND ONE: Alex Koslov and Scorpio Sky (part two) – Scorpio Sky really steps it up in this half. There’s a double clothesline at 2:25 and a stunning spinning face smash at 3:25, though one wishes Koslov would seal the deal instead of gloating to his fans. He even busts out his furry Russian hat for some old school Soviet dancing! What a turd.
Another hot match for 3 falls after the jump!

Continue with “Wednesday Wrasslin’ Round-Up: Ebony & Ivory”

20 Nov 08 By paperbagwriter Write a comment!