Ask QC: Do I Tell Her? Part Two

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Ask QC: Do I Tell Her? Part One.

Dear QC,

Well I thought I would write back to let you know how things have developed, a LOT has happened over the last six weeks!

I also want to thank everyone for all the advice given, I was amazed at the response and the differing views everyone had on this, like I said it was a very difficult situation for me and I really had to think long and hard to consider whether I should tell her or not.

As it turns out, she caught him “at it” (although it was with another woman) and she threw the jerk out. I confided in her as soon as she told me that she had caught him being unfaithful, and although it hurt her a lot she said ultimately she was glad that I had told her about what he had been up to. She didn’t want to believe me at first as she really had no idea he had bisexual tendencies, but I even admitted to being turned on and tempted by him and she was cool about me actually admitting that. She said she realized something was up a while back and she had noticed me avoiding them (but especially him), I guess I wasn’t being as subtle as I thought afterall. It was a bit of a double shock for her I suppose but she is well rid of him!

So I just thought I would give you some feedback on this, I know every situation isn’t the same, but she said that I really should have told her earlier, not that she’s blaming me or anything, its been a dreadful and hurtful experience for her.
Thanks again everyone for your advice.
J.

Please feel free to share your own experiences in the comments section.
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20 Aug 08 By Tim 4 Comments

Joel Fucks Travis at CorbinFisher.com

Joel Fucks Travis at CorbinFisher.com
With Travis — a young stud that totally loves to get fucked — at the receiving end and uber horny Joel on top doing the drilling, conditions are in place for a perfect storm of sweating, pounding, pumping, and cumming! Indeed, Joel fucks Travis hard and steady and the looks on both of these guys’ faces are priceless! There was a real connection between them and there’s no denying they were turning each other on. Even during the foreplay, you could tell some intense stuff was brewing as Joel was practically devouring Travis’ cock, all the while sporting a huge boner before he even came close to taking off his own pants!

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20 Aug 08 By Ken 13 Comments

Zeb Atlas Tops Adam Killian

Tag 'em, Zeb!
Muscle-clad mangod, Zeb Atlas, recently took his gay-for-pay career a step past getting blown by Jake Cruise (which reportedly pissed off Matthew Rush he’d planned to suck-off Atlas first). Apparently, Atlas gave a good, deep dickin’ to a hottie in the last scene of Falcon’s upcoming movie, Best Men.
The bottom’s identity remained secret for a while to create press hype, but the actor’s ill-placed tattoos and perineum piercings revealed him to be recent Playgirl model, Adam Killian, who had worked behind-the-scenes in many porn productions. You can see Killian in the last two shots sporting a beautiful boner and hot case of lactose intolerance.
Whether you go for gay-for-pay or muscle-studs, you gotta agree, Zeb is a hot piece of ass. He’s the only star ever to be named “Man of the Year” by Men Magazine in 2 different years and is dating female pornstar, Devon Michaels.
Previous Zeb Atlas posts on QC:
Zeb Atlas at PlyGirlTV.com
Superstud Zeb Atlas on JakeCruise.com
Zeb Atlas at Menifest Men
Zeb: A God in Paradise at MenMachine.com
Zeb Atlas at MenMagazine/MenMachine.com
Zeb Atlas at MenCyberClub.com

20 Aug 08 By paperbagwriter 9 Comments

Bad Music For Good People

At least he's cute.
Do you like electronic music? Well, not anymore, thanks to hung skater boycandy, Dempsey Stearns. He’s released Bad Music For Good People (only on MySpace, thank God). One wonders why Dempsey would subject good people to this sort of music— it’s not bad, it’s awful. It’s the sort of music you might make while stoned and alone on a Friday Night; the sort of music a frat boy would play to show a drunken co-ed his “delicate side” right before sodomizing her.
According to the MySpace page, Dempsey and his friends started the project “as an act of alternative, post modern obnoxious synthesized/acoustic funky stuff… [with] catchy, uppity keyboard and or piano tracks and satirical undertones and rebellious-against-conformity natures to some of the music, and happy-nonsense bursts of energy in others.” That’s a nice piece of puffery alright. In short, if you like tone deaf singing and Casio keyboards, it’s right up your alley. The riffs are catchy, but over-used with little actual, y’know, music. Very post-modern.
We were gonna post this under QueerClick Arts, but… oh well. At least he still has a career in porn.
Previous Dempsey Stearns QC posts:
Dempsey and Curt at Boyride.com
Dempsey and Kirk Cummings at HotJocksNiceCock.com
Dempsey Stearns and Tyler Johnson at MenHardAtWork.com

20 Aug 08 By paperbagwriter 4 Comments

Tony at FirstAuditions.com

Tony at FirstAuditions.com
Tony is fresh, young and without any experience whatsoever. At a mere 19 years of age, this straight boy barely knows the best way to get himself off so the guys at First Auditions are eager to nudge him into unchartered sexual territory. He was terrified being examined naked on camera for the first time. Glassy-eyed he stares forward into the distance while rolling back his foreskin with a trembling hand to show the camera. Sniffing at his tight untouched boycunt gave his auditioner a big stiffy.

20 Aug 08 By Laam Write a comment!

New Season of Janice Dickinson Features Former Porn Amateur

New Season of Janice Dickinson Features Former Porn Amateur
Color us (not) shocked — yet another porn amateur has turned reality television “star.”
We came across After Elton’s blog post about The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency. This season premieres on August 26th and features a deaf model named Martin. We couldn’t shake the feeling we’d seen Martin before. After diving into the QC archives, we realized he’s also known as Pauly, who has appeared on Cruiser Boys.
This isn’t the first time a former porn model has appeared on The Janice Dickinson Modeling Agency. Last season featured model Rodrigo de Carli, who was discovered to have a porn past.
Our hats off to Janice for bringing these guys into the mainstream spotlight.
Previously on QC:
Pauly at Cruiserboys.com
Javan and Pauly at Cruiserboys.com
See Martin’s gallery on Oxygen.com.
UPDATE: We’ve been asked by Oxygen to remove the photos of Martin from the Dickinson site. You can still see all the photos here.

20 Aug 08 By aaron 21 Comments

QCA Dance: Robert James Hoffman III

I don't mind straight people as long as they act gay
Perhaps best known for being the Urban Ninja, Robert James Hoffman III is a dancer, comedian, and actor who starred in She’s The Man (a romantic comedy inspired by Billy Shakesqueer’s gender-bending crush-fest Twelfth Night), in the endlessly-spoofed You Got Served for which he also won an American Choreographer Award, and in Step It Up 2.
Before you get your hopes up, Robert is straight (but single and prefers boxer briefs… yow!). However, a lot of his comedy uses gay humor and characters— perhaps he’s comfortable with his sexuality or aware of his gay fans. Dancing and theater in general have always had a large gay following and he capitalizes on that by playing with preconceptions of homosexuality without demeaning it.
On his site, Hoffman gives advice to aspiring dancers, though it applies to all artists in general: “There is one way and only one way to make it as a dancer, train harder than anyone else. If there isn’t any good training in your area, find it… it takes time to get your body that versatile and controlled. However, being trained technically is not necessarily the answer. If you can discipline yourself, then first seek out your biggest inspirations whether it be music videos, movies, instructional tapes, b-boy event tapes, old swing dance footage, some guy you saw dancing on the street… whatever it is, seize it and juice it for all it’s creative influence on you. Next, commit all your time to practicing, or working with that person, or perfecting the moves, or going to the clubs where the people get down… when you train hard, you gotta train HARD. You don’t stop when you get it. You do it better. You don’t stop when you get the trick; you evolve the trick into a better trick. You dance until you throw up. Nothing less. That is how you build super endurance. There is no excuse. It is up to you. Do you wanna make money DANCING for the rest of your life? Well so do alot of other people. All you have to ask yourself is: Are you willing to practice harder and longer than them?”
Below are some of Robert’s gayer comedy videos:
Soulmate: RJH dabbles in homosexuality… er, or narcissism… or, um, masturbation? There’s lots of flirting, excitement, and a nice shower scene near the end.

The YES Dance: A hilarious live stand-up performance featuring Hoffman as James Precious from The House of Precious.

See Hoffman’s other gay videos and the Urban Ninja after the jump…

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20 Aug 08 By paperbagwriter 12 Comments

QC DIY: Comebacks For Come-Ons

Oh, no she didn't...
There are millions of cheesy come-on lines — two of our favorites are “Are your legs tired? Because you’ve been running through my mind all day,” and “Those are nice jeans, but they’d looked better crumpled up on my bedroom floor.”
These days, some guys will deliver come-ons ironically to show that they’re savvy enough to know they’re cheesy, but not smart enough to come up with anything original. No matter how they’re delivered, come-on lines are for the desperate. If you wanna hit on a guy, just step up, introduce yourself, and ask some questions.
However, if you need to deflect another dickhead’s come-ons, here are a few quick retorts that will leave them speechless:
THEM: “Haven’t we met before?”
YOU: “Perhaps. I’m the receptionist at the VD Clinic.”
THEM: “Haven’t I seen you someplace before?
YOU: “Yeah, that’s why I don’t go there anymore.”
THEM: “Is this seat empty?”

YOU: “Yes, and this one will be too if you sit down.”
THEM: “So, wanna go back to my place ?”

YOU: “Well, I don’t know. Will two people fit under a rock?”
THEM: “Your place or mine?”

YOU: “Both. You go to yours and I’ll go to mine.”
More bitchy retorts after the jump!

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19 Aug 08 By paperbagwriter 5 Comments

Lansing at ChaosMen.com

Lansing at ChaosMen.com
It’s been a month of shy guys! Last week, Luke was in rubbin’ one off, and today Chaos presents Lansing. Watching this video, it is amazing how different their looks are, but you can see the common thread of shyness between them.
Lansing knows he is shy, but says he opens up once he gets to know the people around him. And he certainly opens up for the cameras! He’s very nicely endowed, but his back side is the epitome of a bubble butt.

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19 Aug 08 By Ken 17 Comments