Ask QC: Bottoming Hurts Too Much! What Am I Doing Wrong?

Hi there,

First of all, I would like to say that I love your site. Best material that’s always fresh and yummy!

I have a problem that I would like to share with fellow QC followers and hopefully, they can offer me some advice.

I am a 28 year old who’s 5′ 10″ and about 154 pounds. I am a bottom and I’ve always loved getting fucked. However, getting fucked has been a problem for me lately. It seems that every time after a hot session of sex, my ass will feel very sore and I will sometimes even bleed when I am in the toilet.

This has never been a problem before. I went to the doctor and he gave me a tube of proctosedyl to apply into my rectum. It is not helping. I don’t engage in rough sex, I ensure there’s plenty of lube before penetration and I even start slow, so that my hole gets used to the cock and stretches itself nicely before the full-on thrusting begins. I haven’t been having sex with exceptionally large men either.

I also eat my greens, take a dietary fibre supplement and I exercise regularly.

The persistence of the problem has taken a toll on me. I don’t enjoy sex anymore, it takes me a week before I can do it again and I get depressed thinking about it.

Is there something I can do or apply to help solve this problem?

I hope someone can give me some advice.

Thanks.
Ash

Right off the bat, our advice seeker should try reading two old installments of Ask QC about painful bottoming here and here. But otherwise, could there be some bigger internal issue going on or even a psychological issue, especially if he premeditate pains going into sex. We’ve come to expect some soreness and maybe he needs some time with toys. But enough of our thoughts… what do you think? How can this young bottom end up feeling back on top? Please share your advice and your experiences in the QComments section.
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