Ask QC: It Hurts When I Bottom!

Hey guys,

I’m a virgin (sorta) and need help regarding what should I do to make my ass loose.

I’ve been on dates with tops but have disappointed them due to the pain—when I bottom, it feels like my ass is tearing up and I feel a burning sensation when applying lube (not sure if that’s normal).

Thanks,

JT

Sounds like our novice bottom’s having a rocky ride. While we’re not so sure about why one would feel a burning sensation while applying lube (hemorrhoid perhaps?), we’re sure there are other things JT might do to help make bottoming more go more smoothly. How can he loosen himself up beforehand and reduce the pain during sex and really begin to enjoy all that bottoming has to offer? Please share your advice and experiences in the QComments.
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