Ask QC: My New Boyfriend Can’t Get it Up

Dear QC,

I recently started dating a super hot guy earlier this year, I’m 19 and he is 29 and a real sexy daddy!

We really get along great and for the first 6 months we have had loads of sex, really hot wild sex, like 2-3 times a day – he’s top verse and I’m bottom verse.

I’ve only fucked him once though and that was 3 weeks ago, the weird thing is since then when we have sex together he can’t get it up! He said he is okay with getting an erection by himself and jerking off but for some reason when we are together he can’t get erect with me. I suggested more things like massage to relax him or that I fuck him but he says he doesn’t want that.

So, I’m a bit confused, he obviously doesn’t have any physical problem getting his dick hard if he can jerk off when we are not together. So it would seem to me a psychological issue, either that or he has “gone off” me!

I’m a bit concerned because I would really like to make this long term and he says he would too – any ideas how he can clear his head of these issues and so we can get back to our normal and crazy hot sex life!? It would be a great help if anyone here can offer or share their advice or experiences with me to help me in this situation.

Thanks!

Byronn

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