Ask QC: My Boyfriends Best Friend is also his Ex-Boyfriend!

Dear Ask QC,

I am seeing a guy who’s best friend is also his ex-boyfriend.

I don’t know what to expect, and I am trying to be as neutral and understanding as I can possibly be.

My biggest fear is that I will always assume the worst whenever they are together, and I don’t want that to be a factor in our blossoming relationship.

Can anyone with prior experience with this issue give me some pointers. I just have no idea what to expect, and I don’t want to be that bitch that drives his best friend away over my petty emotions.

Thanks.

RHL

Hi there RHL and thanks for writing in with your concerns and worries. Have any of you been in a similar situation to this? How did you handle it? Where you able to overcome your emotions? What advice would you offer RHL? If you can help answer any of these questions and more, or have any ideas to offer, then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section.
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