Ask QC: Is it OK to eat cum?

Hi QC,

I’m 19 years old and have been going out with my first true boyfriend for about 4 months now.

Before I met him, my only sexual experience was masturbating a few times with other guys in the locker room – but nothing more than that.

My boyfriend is nearly 10 years older than me, and so far our sex has been great – he’s been very patient in showing and teaching me all sorts of stuff.

One thing I’m still unsure of though, is that when I give him a blow job he really wants me swallow his cum – so far I have resisted this but I don’t mind if he comes on my face – in fact I quite like it 🙂

But is it safe to eat his cum? When I mentioned about HIV or other sexually transmitted diseases he said its OK for me to swallow cos the sperm will be killed in by the acid in my stomach. Is this right? I realize that I shouldnt have sex if there is any exchange of fluids like if I had a cut in my mouth or going bare back and fucking without a condom is risky but what about swallowing cum from a blowjob?

I should also mention that we have both had HIV tests that were negative as I was a bit cautious about sex when I first met him, like I say he’s been patient and all but I’m still a bit concerned about swallowing cum (although I kinda also like the idea of doing it for him too).

Thanks if you can help me answer this,

Ryan B

Hi Ryan, thanks for writing in – I’m sure the QCollective will be able to advise you on this! What’s your take in this guys? Should Ryan be swallowing his boy friends cum? If you can help him answer any of these questions and more, or have any other advice to offer him, then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section.
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