Ask QC at QCommunity: How do I have mutually pleasing sexual connections?

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SEXUAL CONNECTIONS

So I’m not someone that hooks up all the time but recently I’ve become more open to it. So I’ve met a couple guys from an app and haven’t had the most satisfying experiences. Firstly, I am a top and consider myself to be sexually dominant. I didn’t even fuck either of these guys, which is fine because I’m generally more turned on by foreplay anyways. However, in both my experiences the guys were too rough for me. One of them, literally. But it’s an awkward situation because I want them to have a good time but I can’t seem to get my needs met. In both instances I did not orgasm. The first time I thought it was partially due to nerves and not feeling comfortable. But both times the guys were way too rough! I tried to communicate how I felt but it was harder the second time. I don’t know what it is…Maybe I’m just not used to voicing my needs in general… So now I’m wondering how do I find a guy who is more gentle and sensitive, and allows me to take the lead. Any advice would be welcome. Thanks!

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May 22, 2016 By Tim

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