It’s all about the ‘dick’ at Extra Big Dicks, and the guys at the site brought back one of our favorite dicks—Dick Armstrong that is. At 19 years of age, Dick has quite the whopper in his pants. A thick 8 and a half inch Cuban cock. And then there is Lee Snyder. Lee is 21. He’s originally from Austin, Texas. He’s another “long horn’ from the Lone Star state measuring in at 8 and a half inch as well. And watching these two big dicked guys go at it is simply jaw-dropping.
We all know the type: over-dramatic, attention-hungry queens who worry over the littlest things, the most unlikely possibilities, and spazz out about the most ridiculously unimportant matters. The drama queen is almost a gay stock character. You probably know a few in your life, if you’re not one yourself.
Though some drama queens have anxiety issues, high sensitivity, and other insecurities like the rest of us, they’re different in that they selfishly try and control people and social situations through a victimized “woe is me” mentality and by holding others emotionally hostage (“If you cared about me, you would buy into my BS.”). Life’s too short, really to placate these sorts. However, some drama queens are really good people on the inside who either have a consistent flair for the over-dramatic or just need a little TLC to defuse them.
In her latest book, Don’t Call Me a Drama Queen, psychologist Dr. Debra Mandel (as she calls herself) introduces readers to the Drama Queen Syndrome and offers advice on how to live a happier, drama-free life. Here’s an interview with the good doctor in which she discusses the psychology of drama queens, its relateion to gay culture, and some pop-culture examples:
Dr. Debra, what should readers know about your new book?
What’s most important about “Don’t Call Me a Drama Queen” is that we’re talking about loveable drama queens. Not those Emotional Vampire types.
How do you spot an Emotional Vampire?
Emotional Vampires, in my opinion, are the ones that really suck you dry. They have no sense that what they’re doing is causing somebody else distress.
Drama queens are people who have a sense that what they’re doing is overreacting. They’ve been told that they make mountains out of molehills, and they’re tired of doing it, but they just don’t feel like there’s any other way to be.
Are there other types of emotional creatures? Is there such a thing as an Emotional Goblin? An Emotional Unicorn?
I would bet that there are.
Do you think gay men are more likely to be drama queens? Or is that just a stereotype?
I think that’s definitely a stereotype.
I see it across the board. I see it in lawyers and teachers and clerical workers and actors and artists. [I see it] in gays and straights, in white, in black, in every kind of package.
It really depends more on the person and how they learned to process information in the world.
The interview concludes, after the jump!
You’ve got to love this hairy pairing! Superstars Damien Crosse and Roman Ragazzi are both hairy hunks to be reckoned with. Ragazzi de-flowers Damien on the dining room table which serves as the platform after much mutual oral action.
In case you haven’t heard of it, Hustlaball is a self-described “world of hustlers, hookers, pimps, streetwalkers, flesh-peddlers, porn stars and other scandalous sorts. The annual sex-drenched Hustlaball has come along way from its humble beginnings as a one night party held in New York City back in 1998. Sixteen parties later in cities including New York, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, London and Berlin, Hustlaball is not only one of the raunchiest events on the circuit, it is also one of its hottest tickets. The brainchild of former escort and Rentboy.com co-founder, Tom Weise and his business partner, Jeffrey Davids, Hustlaball is today a red hot international series of circuit events that bring together (in addition to the usual suspects) top name musical talent and DJ’s, an outrageous cast of fetish acts and performers and a growing international parade of party people anxious to get in on the triple x-rated fun for which Hustlaball has become notorious. Apparently, this year’s Hustlaball got a little too hot. It went from being just a smokin’ party to actually being on fire. The event was held last was taking place at Club Rebel on West 30th street and at about 2am when the upstairs of the club started to fill with smoke. The NYPD arrived to evacuate everyone as the fire fighters rushed in carrying their big, long hoses. 1,500 naked or near-naked hustlers and patrons ran out into the street just as it was closed off by firefighters, who suddenly realized they were at an all-gay event. While everyone was on the street—more than a few wearing nothing but underwear—the crowd stayed in good spirits, and many of the boys struck suggestive poses in front of the fire trucks. Talk about hoses! At press time, no one was sure exactly what was on fire, but the boys at Rentboy.com who threw the party confirmed the prevailing rumor that it started in the alley behind the club and never made it into the venue itself. The gay boys posed with the firefighters who put out the blaze, and the men of Playgirl.com posed on the firefighters truck in underwear until they were shooed away. The fire was successfully put out and the party continued until the wee hours. Playgirl.com spokesman Daniel Nardicio called to the crowd rushing out, ‘Mandatory Ejaculation!’ Strangely enough, the blaze had nothing to do with the fantastic fire-eating act by Michael Saab halfway through the evening. When we got back inside the club about an hour later, the lower dance floor was closed off and covered in water. Yes, they did let everyone back in, and the top floor still smelled like smoke, but the party continued until the wee hours. And what a party it was! Before the incident, the club was full of sexy men, great music and more porn stars than you can shake your stick at. A great show by Lady Fag, The Ones, Ricky Sinz and Mike Dreyden only added to the music from DJs Rich King, Johnny Dynell and Mickey Friedmann.
Thanks to Wilson Models for the pics! Were you there? Share your story…
Well fellas, we’re halfway through Cocktober and I have to say the studios are pushing out the porn quicker than Jesus made water in to wine. It’s all so confusing, right? Wrong. You have Chinpoko to give you his weekly roundup of all things cock and balls. So get your 3-D glasses on and PataPorn With Chinpoko! Donate to Proposition 8!
For our friends living in the States, gay marriage has become a huge cog in the political wheel, especially in California. Whether you believe in gay marriage or not, I think everyone can agree that human rights shouldn’t be influenced by morality and religious doctrine. So take a look and see what’s happening in a huge movement for gay rights, and if you’re so inclined, give some money. Currently, conservative groups have raised $10 million more than No on Prop 8—that’s a lot of hate to fight. Also, on our own QC staff, Steve Prince, says he’ll be devastated if Prop 8 passes in his home state. Personally, I just think he just wants to wear a wedding dress.
Logan McCree and Alex Tyler
Okay, it’s official… tattoos make me crazy! And I think Rear Stable aptly named this video, because Logan McCree and Alex Tyler are hotter than hell!!! Oh my goodness, I can’t even deal with it. Just thinking about it gives me a headache (which is actually a good thing for me). But I do wonder… how bad does a dick tattoo hurt? Anybody whose got one want to share? And does the artist ink it when it’s hard or soft?
In case you missed it, we’re running a contest for an autographed copy of internationally renowned photographer Dylan Rosser’s debut book, X-posed. Check out the contest post, but don’t delay—the contest ends October 22nd! We’ll feature a review of the book and an interview with the photographer soon after. Good luck!
When you have a cute face and smokin’, lean, ripped body like he does, you should be all about having fun and enjoying the shit out of what nature gave you.
“What are you good at sexually?” our interviewer asked Troy. “I’m pretty good at everything,” he replied shortly. “What’s your favorite thing to do to a girl?” our interviewer tried again.
“Ummm, hmmm, I like to, ummm, hold hands, you know,” he replied. Then he broke a smile (finally), laughed, and said: “And then fuck her.”
Pistol Pete is working out in his private gym. He’s lifting weights and working up a sweat. And when he catches a whiff of his own armpit, it’s like a bottle of poppers. Pete starts massaging his hairy belly and playing with his nipples, and then, he slides his hand inside his shorts. He pushes his stiffening uncut cock through the leg hole in his shorts and really starts working it. As he slides he foreskin up his deliciously thick cock, he squeezes out droplets of precum, which he scoops up with his fingers and tastes with his tongue. Pete gets down on all fours and slides his fingers into his hairy fuck hole and his cock jumps with delight. When Pete can’t stand it anymore, he lies back on the workout bench and sprays a juicy load of cum all over his hairy belly. But he’s not finished yet. He rubs his cum all over his hairy body and cleans up the excess with his mouth.
MIchael Lucas is out to prove that what is one man’s poison is another man’s aphrodisiac. Farts! is the first film in Lucas’ new fetish line of DVD’s and it goes where no one has gone before (we hope). Featuring lots of watersports, a banana(!), a speculum, and lots of gasseous emissions. The words ‘hazzardous duty pay’ come to mind! For those in search of something new in porn this very well could be it…
RJ and Bailey got it on big time at Blake Mason and their steel-like hard-on’s show just how horned up they were! This is your “typical” Blake Mason video loaded with hot kissing, cute guys with big juicy uncut cocks, passionate foreplay, nipple play, rimming, sucking, and of course some damn hot man-on-man fucking. A Blake Mason video would not be complete without one shooting a hot creamy load that could easily win an award. This one is no exception. Think Big. Shoot Hard.
