Ask QC: When Should I Admit I’m HIV+?

Ask QC: When Should I Admit I'm HIV+?

I got HIV when I was 23 and I’m never sure when to tell someone I wanna sleep with that I’m positive—both online and in person.

I don’t have my HIV status listed on my personal profiles, but I’ll be honest about it if someone asks. I do this so that someone will get to know me first before excluding me. After all, I’m more than just HIV-positive; I’m also cool, friendly and funny. The problem is that not all guys ask and I’m never sure when to bring it up, though I’m pretty sure it’s not in the bedroom.

My friends all disagree about when the right time to tell someone is. Some even say that you don’t have to tell a guy at all as long as you’re only doing low-risk sexual activities. But I don’t feel at all comfortable with that. Am I being too cautious?

Do I need to put it out there first thing when meeting a guy or is it OK to wait? I don’t want to be sneaky or a liar, but I also want a guy to like me for me and not be afraid.

Thanks,

Oliver

Anyone who’s HIV-positive knows that disclosing your status can be like coming out all over again. But Oliver’s right, every guy seems to have different guidelines about when to tell someone. We agree that honesty’s the best policy, but when’s the best time to speak up? Please share your advice and experiences in the QComments.
Have a question for QC? Send ’em to [email protected] and we’ll do our best to solve your problems!

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29 Dec 09 By paperbagwriter 24 Comments

Circle Jerk Boys: Kurt Wild and Hunter Vance

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Kurt Wild and Hunter Vance had a fleshjack on their holiday list and played Santa, giving them one to share and giving the rest of us one of the hottest scenes of the year! They stumble upon a box of fleshjacks and decide to have a little fun with them. Kurt is the first to slide his extra thick cock inside as he begins to fuck his. He pounds it up and down on his swollen meat before Hunter takes over for him, jacking him with the fleshjack.

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29 Dec 09 By Dave 9 Comments

Southern Strokes: Rusty

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Rusty may be only 19 years old but this Bama Boy has been around the block a few times and it shows. Rusty carries an amazing confidence about him combined with this sweet innocence that is just a complete turn-on. Southern Strokes had such a great time talking with Rusty during the interview, that they almost forgot that they were going to get to watch him get naked. Make sure that you don’t fast forward through the beginning of his video; you will be missing out on some hot sex stories.

29 Dec 09 By Dave 5 Comments

IAOOC – Suny

IAOOC - Suny
We don’t know about you, but whenever we see a huge muscleman like Suny here, we always wonder if he’s a top or a bottom. Looking at Suny’s amazing arms and torso, we get hard just thinking about how hot he’d look from behind. But then when we get a peek at his swimsuit bulge, we also want the musclestud to take us from behind. So which way is it gonna be?
Let’s get him naked and see, after the jump.

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29 Dec 09 By paperbagwriter 1 Comment

Cocky Boys: Jesse Santana and Todd Rosset

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Jesse Santana is back to get it on with some European man meat in the third scene from our upcoming Cockyboys/Bel Ami match up dvd and this time he’s ready to top. Jesse and beautiful Bel Ami boy Todd Rosset start off exploring the town but Jesse decides he’d rather fuck so the two head back to Todd’s place. Back at Todd’s, the two waste no time – the clothes come off and the making out begins. Todd kisses his way down to Jesse’s amazing dick and shows him what those European lips of his can do. Jesse, in return, makes his way south to eat out Todd’s sweet tight ass – fingering him occasionally.

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28 Dec 09 By Dave 1 Comment

Island Studs: Craig

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It’s immediately evident that this hairy, white (meaning untanned) boy doesn’t live on the islands. Turns out, this 24-year-old just arrived the day before, he agreed to be photographed nude for Island Studs. Craig’s originally from Alaska and leads an active life there. But he admits, while he loves soccer, jacking off is his favorite sport. And he’s at first, a little shy for the camera, but quickly warms up. And watching his beautiful mushroom-head cock spring to life is downright mouth-watering. Once he starts jerking, he loses himself in exhibitionist pleasure. This soft spoken amateur is a great addition to the stable of virgin Island Studs.

28 Dec 09 By redmonkey 2 Comments

Bentley Race: Clint

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Bentley’s mate Clint was the first person to strip down on the rooftop this summer and you can tell by the big coat that it still wasn’t quite warm enough to be completely naked outside. Clint actually surprised Bentley when he pulled out his rather large cock and had no problem walking around showing it off outside. He was showing off some board tricks when he asked if would mind posing in his jocks. Clint pulling out his big meat and getting it hard was just a bonus!

28 Dec 09 By ryu 1 Comment

Leo Giamani Threatens To Sue QC For Posting His QComment

Leo Giamani Threatens To Sue QC For Posting His QComment
In a recent Porn Gossip Roundup we told you about QC’s 2008 Man of the Year asking for financial help in the comments section of his interview. His comment in that post said:

hey this is leo. My career as a porn star is pretty much over. I am not in the best financial situation. Doing porn has made it very difficult for me to enter the financial market I was part of for so long. If there is anyway my fans out there can help me financially, it will greatly be appreciated. thank you

The original QComment contained Leo’s e-mail address, something that our Features Editor recognized from his previous correspondence with Leo. Of course, we couldn’t believe that our Man of the Year had fallen on hard times, so our Features Editor contacted the star to confirm. He e-mailed Leo this message:

The person obviously knows your e-mail address, but I wanted to double-check to see if it’s actually you. Are you OK? Is this an impostor? We haven’t published the comment and aren’t asking to run a feature about it, but if you actually need help, we could do better than soliciting in the comments.

We’re hoping this finds you well,

Within hours, Leo responded to our query:

Hey it is me. I don’t know what good it is going to do but I can’t get work anymore and because of contracts I can’t really work for studios. I am really not ok but what does it matter. Don’t think this will really help but I guess it can’t hurt.

How sad! Our champion sounded so defeated that we wanted to reach out and help him. So after some discussions at QCHQ, our editors decided that it might be helpful to give Leo a chance to speak directly to his fans, so we made him the following offer:

We’re so sorry to hear about your recent difficulties. As I said, I think we can more to help you than giving you space in our comments section. We’d like to do another interview, if you’re open. We’d like to send a member of our team to interview you on-camera and get a clearer picture of your current situation. Our hope is that if we can feature you on our site and show that you’re still willing to work, that it might gain you some reader and studio support. Lots of studios read our site and as QC Man of the Year, lots of readers would respond positively to your plight, we think.

Leo thought it over for two hours and then sent over the following response:

ill let you know. i don’t think it will matter because the way my contracts are set up, im only allowed to film with falcon or randy blue. my contract with randy blue is up, but falcon’s contract is not up until march 2010. Most studios know of this and once word gets out that i am filming falcon is on top of it and lets the studios know. just please post comment. It probably won’t do much good.

We were a little disappointed that we wouldn’t get a chance to help out our handsome hero, but felt hopeful that Falcon might hook him up with some work. Plus, imagine Leo getting worked over by some studs from their stable—hot! Anyway, a little over a month later, Leo decided that his original QComment backfired somewhat and made this request of Team Orange:

hey can you remove my post. it has just led to massive emails that have been very annonying. thank you

On one hand, we don’t normally unpublish reader comments, but we certainly didn’t want a bunch of people harassing Leo, so we made a compromise by removing his e-mail address from his original post. That compromise didn’t sit too well with Leo though. And on Christmas Day, he sent us the following e-mail entitled “legal action pending”:

i have hired an attorney. i aked you nicely to remove the comment i made on your site a month ago. also i did not film recently with cocksure men. you better remove this from your site. i am also requesting any affiliation with leo giamani. i have retained an attorney and if you do not remove the comment i asked, he will be in contact. there are many legal issues on your site invading my privacy. you will hear from my lawyer if you do not compy

We’re not sure how Leo can afford a lawyer during the holiday season, especially if he’s asking for money in our QComments section. But we certainly don’t want any legal trouble from the stud. Of course, if his lawyers look anything like him, then we wouldn’t mind if they came knocking on our back doors. We’d rather settle this in private with Leo, one-on-one like men… with candles and champagne. That’s the sort of out of court settlement that everyone could agree on.

28 Dec 09 By paperbagwriter 43 Comments

Straight Fraternity: Gay Chicken 8

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New roomates Red and Tony came back because they both needed money for rent, and Straight Fraternity made them play Gay Chicken. The winner gets to bang Autumn, too… They were nervous at first, but once they started kissing SF saw that the chemistry changed. It’s like they were a little hot for each other all along…Soon both of them were stroking each other off at the same time. After that, they gave each other blow jobs. Tony sat on Red, and Red jacked them off together. Then something hot happened that has never happened in a Gay Chicken match before

28 Dec 09 By Dave 3 Comments