Ask QC: Does No One Like Spanking?

OK, I’ll just say it—I really like spanking guys. There’s nothing that gets me harder than bending a guy over my knee, pulling his underwear down, and giving him some good, hard swats until his ass is shiny red. I love feeling a guy’s dick get hard against my legs as he moans and squirms.

But other guys… not so much.

I’m not a fetishist or a BDSM freak or anything—I’m not interested in joining a group. I don’t have paddles, crops, whips, or gloves. I’m just a dude who likes spanking ass, but I can’t seem to find a guy who’s into it. My ex-boyfriend didn’t mind me smacking his ass while topping him, but he didn’t like it during foreplay or any other time. Now that I’m single and dating, I try and introduce it to our sex play slowly, never coming on too strong. But while some guys will do it to humor me, none of them seem to really enjoy it; some even seem freaked out by how turned on I get.

Am I doing something wrong? Am I a freak? Am I the only one with this fetish? Do I need to try and find a guy who’s specifically into this? Is there a better way to warm other men up to trying it out and enjoying it? Please help. It seems like such an innocent thing, but such a turn off to everyone I meet.

We’re not so sure this is as “innocent” as he makes it sound, but that’s not a bad thing. If anything, we kinda think this guy should find someone who’s totally into spanking so he can really push the limits, try new things, and maybe work out some of the pent-up sexual aggression. But what else can he do to warm his lovers up to his rough foreplay? How could someone convince you? Please share your advice, opinions, and experiences in the QComments section!
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