Ask QC: Can a Top and a Versatile go long-term?

Dear Ask QC,

My boyfriend has, on multiple occasions, voiced to other people in my presence that he is never getting it “up the ass”. Him and I have yet to have that conversation directly.

I am 100% versatile and demand positions be shared 50/50. There is no way I will be the only one getting fucked in a relationship, it takes me back to the 50’s mindset of male/female roles. I refuse to have any part of that and need to feel equal in my relationships.

Is it possible to convert a top? If not, does anyone know if a relationship with two tops is possible?

Thanks,

David.

Can a Top and a Versatile go long term? Is it right that David voices his opinions about their sex life with other people? Is it possible to convert a top to the role of versatile? And do relationships with two tops work? If you can help David answer any of these questions and more, or have any other advice to offer him, then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section.
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