Ask QC: I’m addicted to hooking up with guys

Hey QC!

Im 20 yo and really into using the apps to hook up with other guys.. lots of guys. Loads of guys actually.. and all the time, its like the apps got me addicted somehow

Even I realize its getting out of hand now, cos i have a steady bf now but he’s cool with me meeting other guys too. So now I feel I cant stop, and im on the apps 24/7, even if im with him i arrange more hook ups. Just cant help it, its like a crazy drug and i need it.

I tried stopping a few times but each time i see another message i get excited and cant stop it, not sure what to do cos i cant afford a shrink or therapy – any ideas what i can do?

East

Hi East and thanks for your questions and concerns. Using smart phone applications and dating websites has definitely made it easier for gay men to meet up. But that doesn’t necessarily mean everyone you meet via an App has to end up with a sex date either. So dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give East? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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