Ask QC: Role play fantasy yes or no?

Hi guys,

Before I met my current BF, I used to date a guy who was totally into role play. That rocked, but as far as a relationship went it totally sucked – we were incompatible in about every way you can imagine – apart from the bedroom that is 🙂

So I’ve been in a steady relationship now for just over a year, we’re committed and exclusive. And everything is great except that my BF wont try role play – he says it makes him feel silly. It’s not like I think my role play fantasies are too bizarre or outrageous (I want him to pretend I’m a stranger and he picks me up in a bar – fucks me crazy, etc), I just find that kind of thing exciting and thrilling.

Is there any way I can tap into his sexual desires to get him interested in my role play fantasies or is it a lost cause?

Thanks for the tips!

Markie

Hi Markie and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. We totally advocate keeping your sex life with your partner spicy! So, dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Markie? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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