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You can always have your teeth removed and get dentures for those moments you are not blowing him ...

* i kidding folks

Pardon me, but this strikes me as more of a solicitation for Forum-type similar stories than it is a search for solutions to a problem.

Ive had similar problems... the world glorifies a big dick until its you wincing in pain trying to set on it or feeling like you have lock jaw the next morning. I always hope guys i like are just average, i like to look at the big ones, but ive had to break up with guys because the sex was just impossible. Im curious how everyone else deals with cocks that are too big... or are we the only two guys in the world that dont want a supersized dick?

I wish I had that problem!!!
Be grateful and take it in, nice and deep.
Deep strokes always help

lick it .. lick lick lick .. work it with your hands.. up and down..worship it ..slap yourself in the face with it ...tickle the piss slit with your tongue... oral doesn't have to be about swallowing a big cock... just worship it for him and you will keep him forever ...

Gonzo, sorry, but that is stupid advice. You don't unwrap a huge 9 inch cock, and just "take it in" that is, unless you are a reamed out loosey goosey ass. There is nothing that will turn you into a total top faster than trying to take a cock that is waaaaaaaaaaay bigger than you can comfortably handle.
I have been fucked plenty, but I would probably not attempt to take a 9 inch cock, especially if it was over 6 inches in circumference.
Jim, I'm with you, I like an average size cock. My bf is about 6 x 5, and that is seriously plenty o'cock for me. I myself am 6 1/2 x 6 1/2 and that will wear out my bf's jaw. He loves getting fucked by me, but seriously, it can really give his jaw a workout.

Apprehensive, here is my advice. Yes, that is a huge cock. However, you will never know how it will feel unless you give it a try. Give yourself realistic goals. Discuss your concerns with you bf. Try taking the slow approach. Use plenty of lube, and then try working it in. Start out on top of him, so you can control the depth. Lube up, and then just work the head in. If that's the farthest you get, then that's great! At least you tried it. Next time, try to go in a little further. Just be open with him about your concerns. As far as your jaw, use a lot of tongue, and don't try and deep throat it, it ain't gonna happen. Best of luck to you. Sounds like a pretty impressive example of manhood.

Look, if you're seriously into this guy, then you will work it out. What if his cock was a micro-mini? Do you ditch him over that? Well, some bitchy queens would but, a decent guy like you would just deal with it, right? Same applies when it is too big, physiologically, your body can take his cock, you're just going to have to put some creative effort into it. Good luck, dude.

most people would ditch a guy with a mini cock--not just "bitchy queens" a nice cock is very important to me---just about as important as face and personality---all three have to be there for me and it sucks cause most guys seem to have horrible little sweet pickle dicks so count your blessings and just worship it like the guy above says, anyway you can.

Okay boys it's time for a class I call Big Dick 101. So as a well hung top with a 9x6 " cock I will let you in on my trade secret for fucking guys without causing traumatic injuries (if I want a repeat fuck ". I call it the "Virgin Position": what you do is put the horny bottom on his back with his legs up and u slide up to him in a sitting position so that your legs are under his and his hungry hole is right in line of site with your big dick. From here you simply place the head of your dick in only and wait for a few moments without moving, then slowly do slow shallow strokes rocking your ass back and forth giving a little at a time till he gets use to the size. Before you know it he will be pushing back and greedy for more and before he know it you will have the whole thing buried deep and him moaning and beating his meat til he nuts. Now the goal isn't to get all of it in the first time, but as much as he can take. (usually though it's the whole thing). I have had more than one guy say to me after " Did I really take out that" and I just "yup you did, like a pro" lol... Hope this Helps Boys!!

Regarding BJs; get creative with your tongue and hands (using lube) instead, dipping his cock into your mouth only occasionally rather than trying to pleasure him exclusively using your mouth. Regarding bottoming; lube, slow and easy, and only occasionally.

Most relationships require compromises, this one requires a few (mostly on HIS part -- no to-the-root BJs, fewer sessions on top), but nothing so serious that it should be considered a deal-breaker. Just some (minor) modifications of your sexual behavior.

My ex was 10.5". Tried as I might, I couldn't swallow that monster and still breath. My solution was the two handed stroke with my mouth taking as much as I could,,kind of like jacking him off and sucking him off at the same time. He never complained about my not being able to deep throat him. As to anal,,that took lots of patience and lots of lube. I found the more we fucked, the easier it became. Like biged said,,start out with you on top. That way you control the whole process. I'd suggest having him finger fuck you first with one, then two then three fingers. Buy an expandable butt plug. Have a glass of wine first to help you relax.

Butt plug, butt plug, butt plug!

sounds cliche, but they arent just for dungeon queens. start with the small or medium and go bigger as necessary. might be a little investment, but if the guy is worth it (he sounds like he is) itll pay off

yeah, i'd say purchase a dildo or butt plug to help loosen you up. my boyfriend is quite thick and i never wanted to have sex because it hurt too much. i bought a dildo to help get me used to it...it isn't as thick as he is, but it has helped immensely. i just use it to jerk off with, but its made me able to take him without all the pain.

as your bf is 9 inches long, i don't know that it will help with you getting him all the way inside you, but it'd at least help with the thickness. he is probably used to not being able to put it all the way in anyway...

Solid9 - can you take my cherry please?