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I like guys of all types as long as they are healthy and confident. Simple as that.

well on the one hand i would say that people who work out all the time like themselves and then of course like other people who physically remind them of themselves. but normally the cub goes with the bear, top with a bottom and so on. so i think either you have been gay for like a week or you need to visit your local libraby and study up.

You could do with a visit to a library too too michael, as you could find a dictionary there to brush up on your spelling before you start being sarcastic toward someone who came here in good faith looking for advice....

I myself am 6'4" and tend to be attracted to guys close to my height. But I do love to see gay porn where a tall man has his way with a short gut.

Im kind of the same way and i would say... for the most part no. Muscle guys like muscles so bad that they dedicated their lives to growing muscular. So they tend to like muscles... which sucks cause im a skinny little twerp too. Daddies are a different story some of them like guys the same age as them but there is a big group of older guys that like young guys of all types. So If your lookin for muscle id hit the gym... If you want a daddy you just need to look in the right place.

I would say everything is possible, as I am a young skinny guy who has never dated another one. I have dated a few jocks, a few daddies, some just slightly older, some around my age, etc, but I think the "equal attractiveness" is a rule that apply to some degree even to straight couples. In my experience, I would say "equally sought after". You said "bigger" guys: do you mean muscular, or any guy bulkier than you? It makes a lot of difference. Although I like fit guys (who doesn't?), I'm far from being impressed by it. Excluding non-muscular guys would be a ticket to loneliness.

Everyone should date a stupid/narcissist/asshole muscular guy once in their lifetime, it's very educational. It teaches you a lot about your own taste, it makes you perceive that it takes more than just looks to make a good partner. When you realize that you want more than just looks and how hard it is to find a guy with a balanced personality, it will be easier to see the beauty of an average looking guy.

ANSWER: pairings come in all combinations

Given enough number of people answering your question, you will find every imaginable preference as well as enough people who share your preference (also enough people who prefer the exact opposite).

"Dumb" may be unable to keep a relationship with "intelligent", but there is nothing to keep "buff" from being drawn to, going out with, or simply sleeping with "twink".

There is a whole lot more variety in life than in Porn, I myself am a smaller guy (125 lbs) and my husband for 8 yrs is taller and much more muscular (220 lbs). We find it difficult to find porn that we both want to watch, he wants twinks and I want men, it is definetly a genre lacking content in the porn universe.

Me and my boyfriend found each other online. We're very much in love, have been together for over a year and now living together since April. I am very skinny and of average height. He calls me a twink all the time jokingly but I'm definetely not hairless. He is much bigger than me though neither of us is 'muscular'. He is also 14 years older than me. I do call him my bear. He's strong, hairy, and cuddly. But, our physical types (or age) are not what attracted us to each other or what keeps us together. It's our personalities and that special 'spark'. But yeah, everyone's different. I'm sure you'll find your muscle daddy if you keep looking.

I like guys that are at least a head shorter than me. Taller guys intimidate me. My man loves a taller bf- makes him feel safe and secure. Good match, isn't it? And we're together for nine years already.

i'm a bigger muscular guy, and actually i prefer twinks. but the problem that i find is that twinks aren't interested in me.

CUM TO DADDY!!

This is actually a question I've asked of myself and others recently and it seems that no one's really ever offered a satisfactory answer. I've since come to the conclusion that there is no right answer because you can't box people into stereotypes and assumptions. People like what they like, whether the guy is skinny or roided out, and there're more things that factor into attraction than just physical appearance. It's why I'm hoping that my sparkling personality endears me even though I've got a decidedly geekish appearance. Ha ha.

That said, I don't think it's enough to just be all personality and no looks, and it's certainly not enough to be all looks and no personality. There has to be a healthy balance of both. Physical attraction is still important even though you've got all these people screaming out about how it's what's on the inside that counts. It's just that physical appearance isn't the only thing you should worry about when you size up a guy.

I'm 24 years old, 5'6", average build and have dated guys as tall as 6'2" who were either really skinny or somewhat heavyset by comparison. I personally like being with a taller, bigger guy (which is not hard to come by considering my own stature) because I find it comforting and it makes me feel more secure. I've always enjoyed that comparatively "feminine" role - the notion that women tend to be smaller and shorter than their male partners. On the other hand, I know I would have a hard time being with someone shorter than me simply because I feel small as it is compared to most men. My most recent boyfriend and I were the same height, which was fine, but I know I have an innate preference for bigger guys. Muscles are always a plus to quench my inner shallow desires, but since I'm not touting any substantial muscular definition of my own I find normal, average, healthy guys just as sexy. It's a case-by-case matter as everyone above me has also pointed out. Personality is the ultimate test of compatibility, but for some, size/stature/height are a prerequisite of sorts, which shouldn't be seen as a negative thing. Physical attraction and physical compatibility definitely matter; whether or not it comes before or after getting to know someone first is purely individualistic.

thanks for asking! wanted some1 to ask that too

I believe in the "gay food chain" from what I've seen since 1981. With some exceptions, I bet most gay men long for someone bigger, butcher, etc. I try not to be cynical, but I've widdled down my wish-list over the years. But Queerclick keeps me dreaming.

lol.I know what you mean I'm in between a very thin scaled but muscular twink so though my body always scores big time say at the beach or when I'm out of my clothes, when I'm dressed people don't find me attractive the least cause of my strange and unfortunate feminine soft gay face..no matter how much i work in my body the face remains..a very weird combination as I'm mostly top so finding a cute young bottom who is into a twink with a feminine face is like looking for a gay man in a jeena jamesson solo movie theater opening..twinks in my area are only interested in butch guys or daddies and I only get hit by older top daddies or wild bear types,which are not my cup of teat at all..anyway someone is out there waiting for you don't give up,lol...

The only problem I've ever come across with this issue is when I was fooling around with a guy who was solely a top...

I'm "athletic" not ripped, not super skinny, not fat... 6'2" and generally bottom more than top.

He was 5'9" and muscled out (he used to model jockstraps he told me lol) and I never woulda thought he was gay by the way he acted.

He kept refusing to meet me for the longest time, and when I finally asked him why he said it was because I'm taller than him.
It was the whole dominance thing that bc he's a top he's supposed to be bigger, taller, thicker, longer...idk his issue.

Well I convinced him to meet me and had one hell of a fun summer if you know what I mean. lol so in the end it doesn't really matter as long as no one is hung about it. =]

of course it depends on the guy...

my bf works out 4-5 days a week and i'm just skinny, but that is the way he likes me. i've talked about trying to get more muscular, but he says no way.

as far as height, i do prefer guys that are tall (like 6'2 at least) as i'm 6'5, but my bf is 6'1...too big a difference in height can be annoying...i always have to bend or spread my legs to get to the right height to make out...but once we're laying down it isn't an issue lol

THank you queerclick for posting my question!

It's really exciting to see all of these responses and know that i'm not alone in my thoughts. I'm going to see things differently following this, I just needed a little boost from my fellow twinks. :)

im a big guy and prefer little/smaller sized guys than me - im muscular but genetically im just big anyway. not sure why i dont prefer guys the same size or bigger than me, but i put it in the category of some people like blond/red hair which may turn them on, or perhaps older or younger guys. i guess the thing is that there are no 'standard' pairings, every relationship is different and there is no need to have to fall into any particular category. so chris just to let you know im sure there are many bigger sized guys who are into smaller/twink guys and thank goodness there are those smaller guys who like us big guys too! ;)