Ask QC: Why Can’t I Get Hard Bottoming For Big Dicks?

Hi there queerclick! I love your site and always love to hear the advice people have, so i thought id ask for some myself.

I’m a 20-year-old gay man who has had a handful of sexual experiences and identifies as a bottom. I’ve dated guys with an average of 6-7 inch dicks and have always loved it… but the last two times I’ve hooked up with guys I haven’t been able to get an erection while bottoming. The only
difference I can think of is that these guys have had HUGE cocks!

If porn, all my friends, and the amount of Enzyte commercials on TV have taught me anything, it’s that I should be in heaven… but I’m kind of hating it. I am absolutly incapable of getting it up and am completly
embarassed. Afterwards the guys act confused like “Everyone loves my huge cock, whats wrong with you?” Then I go home and ask myself the same question.

I’ve seen porn where the bottom isn’t hard, so I wonder if this is a mental or physical issue people have? or am I being a bad bitchy bottom?

Thanks,

Bewildered Bottom

Bewildered Bottom finds himself in a new position. While porn’s not always the best place to learn about “real sex”, Bewildered would rather give his partners a standing ovation than bow out. Does anyone have any hints to help him out? Please share your advice and experiences in the comments section.
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