Ask QC: How Should I Approach The Guy At The Gym?

Hey guys,

I have this major problem, that I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m 20 years old, currently a college guy and I think I’m kinda bi. The thing is I usually go to the gym as much as I can cos I wanna get fit and stuff. About 2 months ago I started to notice a hot guy, round my age who kept looking at me all the time.

At the beginning I thought “Ok, he likes the way I train,” but when I looked back he would smile at me. This kept going and, it might sound odd and weird, but I started to feel something for him. I honestly didn’t knew what to expect or do, mostly because it was the first time a guy looked at me.

As the days passed, he would train next to me, do some strange noises (like moaning), and show me his toned body. As I am new to all this, I asked a gay friend and he told me if he looked at me in the eyes, maybe he wanted some, and that’s exactly what happens. When he’s next to me, or in front, I always look at him, not too obviously, and he would stare me in the eyes for, like, 10 seconds.

One day, at college, I was eating with my friends, when suddenly I saw him sitting right in front of me. My question is, what should I do or think about all this? I’m too shy to start a conversation, but I’m desperate to talk to him and get to know him better. Maybe he’s just trying to be my friend, or simply, as all the dudes at gym do, he looks at me for no reason. I`ve tried to find him at Facebook (so stalker, I know) but I really like him a lot. Does he feel something for me??

Thanks,

Anthony

Even though Anthony’s new to the scene, approaching someone at the gym can be nerve-wracking even for someone with experience. How can Anthony get a vibe on his gym buddy without making a wrong move? Please feel free to share your experiences and advice in the comments section.
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