Ask QC: Are There Celibate Gays?

Dear QC Readers:

I am a 19-year-old gay guy who is scared of having sex. I watch porn and enjoy it but I do not really see myself being in that position. I am very much so attracted to males but having sex just freaks me out. I think that I will be celibate for the rest of my life, but I am afraid of not finding someone just like me. I am scared of this because the gay community seems to be very sexual, (or so I think.) So my question is, can there be gay men who are celibate?

John

As hot as porn is, seeing a bottom get plugged by a monster cock is not always the best introduction to lovemaking. We’re not so sure John’s a true asexual, but should he decide to explore celibacy, will John be able to find another gay guy who’s not just focused on sex? How might he go about finding such guys? Are any of you celibate? If so, why? Please share your thoughts, advice, and experiences in the comments section.
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