Ask QC: I Stole My Best Friends Undies!

A few weeks back I was reading an Ask QC about a guy who was nicking jockstraps from the locker room and getting off on it. I know there were some comments saying he was weird doing that, but I kinda knew where he was coming from!

When I was in my late teens and early 20’s I used to steal my best friends underwear. It didn’t matter if it was used or clean but I just had to steal it. I know its weird, but the thing is, he’s been my best friend since middle school and we did everything together. When I got to about 18 or 19 I realized that I had fallen in love with him and had this massive crush on him. But of course, the thing is he’s straight, straighter than straight actually but he’s very gay friendly. When I came out to him he was OK about it and just said we could still be best friends but there was never going to be any sex between us – ever! I don’t know why but I was kinda devastated by him telling me that, well I was happy he didn’t reject me as a friend and I suppose I had a naive hope that even though he was straight he might be into having some fun together. I don’t know why but when I realized we were never going to have sex together I just starting stealing his undies, each time I went to his house I would raid the laundry room. And when I got home I would sniff them and wear them, it even really got me so excited to wear them when I went to his house sometimes too!

Eventually, I stopped stealing his undies, as he went to college and I got a job in the city. I know I should have thrown them out, but I have 22 pairs and I kept them in a box in my drawer and occasionally would still get them out and look at them, especially if I missed him or I was feeling low. Recently my current boy friend moved in to my place and guess what he found, yes that’s right, those undies. At first I tried to fob him off with a story but eventually I admitted what I had done. He now says I should return the stolen undies to my best friend but I think I would rather die than have to face him with that! I know it’s the honest thing to fess up but I am really worried that I will lose my life long friend. I had thought of just throwing them away and telling my BF that I have confessed but I know he wont buy that story. I have really got myself into a mess with this and don’t know what to do, if anyone has any advice or help I would be so grateful. I know what I have done is wrong and I now want to do the right thing, I just don’t know how best to approach the situation with my best friend without losing him.

Thanks for your time, I would really appreciate any help with this.

JD

Remember a few weeks back when we had another underwear thief write in? Seems like there is more than a few who get pleasure from sniffing guys undies but we all know that nicking other peoples knickers is just wrong! So how can we help JD? How can he get out of this sticky situation and come up smelling of roses? If you know the answer or a really neat solution to this then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments.
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