Ask QC: Threesome Etiquette vs. Escort Etiquette?…
Hey QC!
A few weeks ago you ran an Ask QC on Threesomes and implied etiquette.
This past week my hubby and I, together for many years, decided to try a three-way and we chose the Escort route, using a well-known national website. We had specific wants and decided a professional would allow us greater say, especially as first-timers, as well as have knowledge and experience in ensuring a good time was had by us, the client. We live in a large urban area.
Ultimately we made arrangements with an escort to come to our home, and involve us together for 90 minutes, for which a fee of $500 was requested and agreed up. As this dude was handsome, with a buff and muscular bod and had done some porn films, we believed we had selected the right guy for us. I Skyped him per his request and we video chatted for an hour several days before the appointment, I liked what I saw. We discussed needs, wants, and my gear fetish 😉 He was nice looking, a hot bod, quite personable, and when he showed up, über-clean. A friendly guy, he dropped his shorts, pulled on a tiny bikini showing his big bulge and came out to the pool to sun with us and chat before we really got going. He advertised as TOP only, said he rarely bottomed anymore. All in all, we had fun with him and it was a good first-time experience.
My question is, without a formal contract and in a non-legal situation such as this, what do you do when your hired professional doesn’t completely deliver? If a TOP can’t stay hard enough to fuck, what do you do? Stop everything and say adios? Say afterwards, what’s up, why’d that (or rather didn’t) happen? Is an adjustment of the agreed fee in order? We got our full time with him, and then some, and it was generally a rewarding experience and we’re glad we tried it, yet it was partially disappointing. Also, naturally, it felt somewhat awkward to discuss afterwards the failure to fuck. Not that it should matter, but we are mid-fifties, in very good shape, good looking, decent people, he was well respected and well treated and we did pay his full fee.
We think it was quite clear about anal activity, yet this young man (mid-twenties) had trouble staying hard, even after offering him (and accepting) 50mg of Viagra. Dudes that age with erection problems which don’t respond to Viagra probably should be seeking medical advice IMO…
Yours,
T Dot.
Most of us, no doubt, have all found ourselves at one time or other in one of those awkward “after sex moments”! And although T Dot and his hubby had a good time trying out a threesome, they had entered into an agreement with their chosen partner who, ultimately, failed to deliver what they expected and were paying for. But what’s the right thing to do in this situation? Put it down to experience? Ask for another go? Ask for a refund? If you’ve experienced anything like this and would like to share your advice with T Dot and his hubby, please feel free to leave your opinions in the QComments section!
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