Ask QC: Is there really a way to have safe Bare Back Sex?

Hi QC,

I don’t understand how people can ever be convinced they are having safe Bare Back sex.

I mean, with an exclusive boyfriend of course it’s easier, but what about those who have BB sex with random people?

The 3 months window period can be really tricky, the only safe way that I can think of is that you get tested 3 months prior and so proving you are negative, and then wait 3 months without having sex at all (or only have protected sex during that period – but I feel this will then discount the confidence at the end).
I don’t know, when you are having BB sex, what makes anyone think you are safe?

Appreciate your thoughts and advice guys,

Thanks,

John H

Bareback sex is certainly an interesting (and controversial) topic!, Whilst everyone knows that we should always wear a condom during intercourse to stay safe, some choose not to do so. The reasons why they do or don’t wear a condom – well only they can really answer that! But you’ve certainly raised an interesting and relevant topic John. So if anyone can help John with the answers he’s seeking, or have any other advice to offer him on this subject, then please leave your opinions, experiences, and advice in the QComments section.
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