Ask QC: Does He Like Me?

Dear Ask QC,

I’m Argentinean, I think there are many differences between my culture and yours but also there must be similarities too. I’m 22 years old and really like this guy but I’m not quite sure what to do. I want to know how I can workout if this guy (Martìn) likes me the way I like him?

We meet at the College every day but only a few times I actually dare to say “Hi” to him… I’m very shy and I can never really see if someone likes me or not. I only find this out when a person tells me so its hard to know as I have very little experience with guys.

I’ve noticed more than a few times that Martin got quite nervous when I stared at him. I thought it was because he knows I am gay and that he didn’t like that. However, when I spoke to him, he was willing to listen and he smiled a lot. My close friends know that I am gay but I’m not really sure that Martin does? I don’t consider myself a macho even though many classmates think that I am straight. Something more, I like hang around with my closest friend and kinda pretending she is my GF, many people believe she is and so does Martin so I know this confuses the issue somewhat. 


I really want know him very well, sometimes I think about doing things with him, like sleeping together and watching him waking up. Or just staring at him while he sleeps or touching his back. 
I doubt if he looks for the same as me or just wanna fuck. Or even if he realizes that I wanna have sex too. Sorry about my grammar.


Help me please,


Thanks
 M. Y.

Hi M. Y. and thanks for your question. Telling someone that you have feeling for them is hard, and not knowing if Martin is gay or not makes the situation so much harder. Dear QC readers, If you can help M. Y. in any way, please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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