Ask QC: I don’t seem to attract the guys anymore

Hi QC,

I don’t seem to be attractive to the guys I am attracted to, what do I do?

When I was younger (20’s-30’s); I would get the attention of very hot looking guys. I mean the type the others would say ‘WTF you hooked-up with that hottie?’ I also dated the same type of men, but it didn’t last longer than 6-9 months. Some how the interest in me was lost.

Now I am in my early 40’s and the guys I am still attracted to are not even looking at me. Yeah I’ve put on some weight and the hair has gotten some grey in it, but I’m still the same man inside.

I know one of the obvious answers is to get in shape; lose the extra weight. But is it these days that men don’t want to date for a relationship anymore – is it just the FB thing now?

Waiting for Mr. Right

Hi there and thanks for writing in with you questions and concerns. Finding a compatible life partner and your Mr. Right (as opposed to finding just a Fuck Buddy) can be fraught with difficulties. But don’t despair, there are lots of alternatives out there and no doubt many readers who can point you in the right direction. So dear QC readers, what suggestions and advice can you give to help find a Mr. Right? If you can help in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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