Ask QC: My friends new BF made a pass at me!

Dear Ask QC,

My friend recently starting dating a guy who I know from the past. Not that I ever dated this guy before, but he did make a pass at me even though he knew I was in a LTR with my current partner of 9 years. And it was more than just flirting, it was a full on grope and a forced kiss onto me. At the time, I just pushed him off and didn’t think any more of it, but now he has started dating my friend I don’t know what to do.

My partner thinks I shouldn’t say anything to my friend about that night, but I feel uncomfortable knowing that if he tried it on with me he probably will do it again (if not with me then with other guys). The fact he tried it on when he knew full well that I was in a steady relationship gets to me, what do you think I should do – I don’t want my friend to get hurt by this man, so should I tell him or not?

Bryant

Hi Bryant and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. I can certainly understand your particular dilemma, do you tell him or don’t you? So, dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Bryant? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section!
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