Ask QC: I’m A New Sugar Daddy…

Dear QC,

I’ve just entered my 40’s. I’ve never been “vgl” but that has never stopped me from having a very active and safe sex life. I have always been happy about having a good circle of friends and my open long-term relationship. I’m well employeed and very busy socially, professionally and from a volunteer perspective. I have also had an eye for guys both my age and younger. Never (seriously) younger than 18, but I really am into guys that are into older guys. I’ve been in a “relationship” with a 19 year old for a year that is now ending because he’s gone to college in another state. We had a “dad/son” relationship that was very much sexual but that also came with monetary benefits. Over time I came to genuinely love him. And I know he felt something for me—though probably not love or “in love”—I know he cared about my feelings and respected me and even needed me.

I am increasingly approached by young guys about this kind of arrangement… and I’ve even begun exploring another relationship with a 23 year old.

I would really like advice from guys from both sides of this context. I would love to know what makes this arrangement enjoyable, mutual and even healthy.

New Sugar Daddy

We all need help in different phases of our lives and here’s where our QCollective comes in very valuable because of the broad appeal of hot porn. So daddies and teens, wanna throw in some suggestions for our new sugar daddy?
In the spirit of our Advice column, let’s try to have a healthy discussion going on. Anti-constructive comments will be fed to QC’s store of anti-matter for a good display of digital detonation.
Need advice? Just send in your questions and the QCollective will get you some answers!