Ask QC: From Top to Bottom

Ask QC: From Top to Bottom

Hi QC,

Up till now, I’ve been a top all my life (28 now) but recently I have had these urges to become a bottom and get fucked.

The problem is my current bf is a total bottom, and although we’ve tried it with toys and dildos that really isn’t what I want. I just have this uncontrollable urge to have a real man’s cock inside me.

So I think, OK I’m just wanting a bit of versatility which initially surprised me, but now I realize that I’ve also lost my interest in fucking another guy. As you can imagine this is causing all sorts of problems with my current bf.

I guess I’m turning from a top into a bottom, just a bit concerned this will last or be permanent, I’ve tried to get my partner to be a top but he’s not interested in that at all and I cant see two bottoms staying together (at least sexually).

We don’t really want to split up over this, but we are missing out on our sex lives. Anyone else been in this situation, did you get another person in for a threesome or eventually break up or what? Any ideas or experiences on this to help us would be really appreciated?

Thanks!
RJC.

Anyone been in this situation before? What advice would you give RJC, dear QC readers? Please feel free to share your own experiences and advice to help him in the comments section.
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Oct 15, 2008 By Tim 10 Comments