Ask QC: I’m A Big Guy Who Gets Intimidated By Hot Guys

Media is kinda evil.

I’m a big guy, gained a lot of weight, but I’m still good looking. The way media puts a spotlight on guys with great abs, great cocks, thight bodies, and chiseled jaws really makes me insecure about myself.

I dated a few guys before and they liked me. I have the personality and they are okay with my body. They loved me. But I turned them down because I just feel insecure about my body and think it’s better for them to find a hotter guy.

Is it just me or what? Should I just stay the way I am?

As a gay porn blog we’re partially responsible for perpetuating the image of “the perfect guy.” But while killer looks and porn star sex totally rock, it’s important to remember that these men are sexual fantasies and that chiseled abs and a nine inch cock are no substitute for the sexiness of a smart, fun-loving guy with a great personality and caring heart. Sounds like our advice seeker could use some advice on how to raise his confidence without letting all the models on TV, the web, and magazines wreck his self-esteem. We’re sure he’s not the only one who has ever felt this way, so how can he help himself feel more secure when approached by hot guys instead of giving up before it begins? Please share your comments, experience, and advice in the comments section.
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