Ask QC: He Wants Sex More Often Than I

I just started dating a guy who always seems to be horny—he kisses me at every stop light and sometimes wants to fuck about 3 times a night. I’m flattered and try to play along, but I’m the sort of guy who masturbates once a night if at all and even when I date a guy, I don’t typically fuck but once a night. I tired easily and enjoy cuddling and talking more than fucking all the time.

Don;t get me wrong—when I am in the mood and our energies synch, the sex is great! And I don’t want to discourage him because I think he’s really attractive, but I also don’t think our sex drives are evenly matched. I’m also worried that if I don’t engage in sex as often as he wants that he’ll think I’m disinterested or will leave me for someone who can. Am I weird for not wanting to have as much sex as he does? We’re similar in age, height, and weight. What’s the best way to turn him down or satisfy him without hurting his feelings or forcing myself?

Be careful what you wish for, QueerClickers. Our advice seeker has found a real sex-maniac, but he’s apparently too much to handle! And while there’s nothing wrong with saying no to sex, how can this fella keep his new stud pleased even when he’s not in the mood? Is there a amiable solution to this bedroom issue? Please share your advice and experiences in the QComments section.
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