Ask QC: My pubes keep falling out when having sex

Dear Ask QC,

I’m 22 and enjoy keeping fit, gym, cycling, swimming and I’m in my last year at college – I live life to the fullest and regularly go clubbing and, best of all, love dating lots of guys too!

I’m naturally quite a hairy guy, especially my crotch and ass and there is no way I’m gonna shave that off! But I do have a bit of an embarrassing problem when having sex – usually during oral my date will end up getting a mouthful of hair. I mean, they end up having to spit out hairs when they blow me.

I’ve tried trimming and keeping my bush as natural as possible, I shampoo and even brush to remove any loose hairs before I go out on a date. But no matter what I seem to do there’s always this embarrassing moment when my date coughs and then spits out (or even pulls out from their teeth – ugh!) several of my pubes!

I’m beginning to wonder if there is something wrong with me, its not like I’m losing clumps of hair, but there’s more than a few pubes come off when I brush and after showering I notice quite a lot of hair in the drain too.

I don’t know whether this means I am going to go bald (there isn’t any hereditary hair loss in the family), or does this mean I have some other problem? I really don’t want to shave or wax until there is nothing down there to avoid this problem. Is losing this amount of pubic hair an indication there is something else wrong?

Any ideas or advice would be great thanks!

Jayden

Hi Jayden and thanks for your question and concerns. There has, for a long time in the comments section, been an ongoing debate whether guys should shave or leave their pubic regions untouched. Some cite health, appearance or comfort reasons, others prefer the pubic bush to be left untouched and in its natural state. But it’s a personal choice and both smooth or hairy have their own sexual appeal. As for the dropping of hair and the embarrassment it’s been causing you I’m sure there are a few guys here who have experienced similar situations themselves. So, dear QC readers, what tips and advice can you give Jayden? If you can help him in any way, then please share your wisdom and advice with all in the QComments section.
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